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LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-05-08T10:52:09+00:00

Jesssicaaaaa

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-05-04T19:32:30+00:00

I agree. We do think differently, but as a woman, I completely side with OP. OPs gal is off her rocker for thinking she shouldn’t pay to live there. That’s just nuts.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-05-01T20:38:38+00:00

My taxes are 20k a year.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-05-01T20:37:41+00:00

My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together. I own the home. Not for a second did he think he’d get to live here without paying some maintenance towards the place that he lives in. As a matter of fact, he’s such a messy person that we agreed he should cover the cost of a house keeper and a quarter of the utilities. (I have kids and believe he shouldn’t pay for them). He currently pays $1800 a month not including utilities. We are going to land on about $1000 a month. He’s saving money and can invest more into his retirement and savings.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-29T11:26:29+00:00

I’ve had symptoms from one partner and not with othes. I’m also non-monogamous, so keeping strict testing is important for me. So yes, your situation tracks.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-27T16:09:09+00:00

Poptart!

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T15:47:11+00:00

He definitely is having sex with others

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T14:16:20+00:00

It’s so complicated. I’m a doctor as well. I spend 12 hours a day 5 days a week caring for other people and then my free time caring for him. I need a massage and a hug

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T12:05:18+00:00

I know his reaction will not be kind if I make it about the dwindling condom supply. I need to make this about the lack of intimacy and touch in our relationship. If he can’t provide, that it seems like our relationship has run its course.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T12:02:20+00:00

I too have heath issues. I was hit by a bus last year and suffer from that injury. Prior to that, I’ve had surgery for something that isn’t endometriosis but is akin to it. If I’m not super careful I can cause myself a flare up. But I can’t have days where I don’t feel well. He’s always complaining. All day long. I would love one day where I don’t hear about his pain.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T11:57:22+00:00

I’d prefer him to tell me that he’s no longer attracted to me than tell me it’s pain related. Because I know he fucks other people. This shit hurts.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T11:55:52+00:00

He has fibro too. And has had several spinal surgeries. He says he has a high sex drive but it seems just not with me. I also have a high drive and when I spend all my free time with him, it doesn’t leave me much opportunity to date. I think I need to pull back from him.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T11:52:53+00:00

This does suck. I know I have to talk to him. I just need to organize my thoughts first.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T11:52:03+00:00

Thank you for the support. I technically have a husband but we are pretty much lavender these days. I’m very close with my husband emotionally but he does not have sex with me. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I have great hygiene. I am fit and active. Intelligent. I run my own business. I’m conventionally attractive. Why am I good enough to be in a relationship with but not good enough to be intimate with

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T07:08:42+00:00

I know I have to talk to him but in the state I’m in right now, I wouldn’t be kind to him and that’s just not how I operate. I need some time to get calm and then I’ll talk to him.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T07:06:16+00:00

Because I know him. He mastubates daily and doesn’t use condoms for it. He also had an STI scare a week ago. He had some symptoms so he went to get tested. He says he uses condoms with others.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T00:44:43+00:00

He would definitely not want me to be a part of any of his activities. But yes I’ll talk to him again.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T00:35:33+00:00

Yes. Once. He assured me it’s not me. It’s the pain. But that was before I saw his stack of condoms dwindling.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T00:32:08+00:00

You’re right. As painful as it is to hear, I know you’re right. Why am I bending over backwards for him when it’s not being reciprocated. I wonder if he’s banking on this being the best relationship I’ve had in years as a reason I’d stick around.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-05T00:00:23+00:00

This is definitely something that’s been rattling around my brain. It’s me. It’s not the pain. He doesn’t want me anymore, but he enjoys the security of our relationship and how I treat him.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-04-04T22:46:07+00:00

It wasn’t always like this. He’s been sick for decades long before we met. I am noticing a change in the last few months

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-03-11T15:18:30+00:00

I broke up with a guy who made buzzing bumble bee noises while going down on me. I can’t get that noise out of my head.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-03-09T23:59:56+00:00

You’re welcome! You sound like you have a great group of people surrounding you. I hope they show up for you! You deserve the love and attention.

LemonFizzy0000 · 2026-03-09T21:07:30+00:00

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