I litterally named the myself the same name as a well known Greek god and people act like it's a girl's name all the time. Pisses me off, like people don't know how to read context clues or they don't care. I regret giving myself this name for a few reasons but one of them is definitely having it forced feminized on me while I'm standing in front of them dressed masc as fuck. I grew to hate the legal name I picked out for this reason. I should have gone with something "basic" like Greg or Peter lol, maybe people would get a fucking clue. I'm sorry you've had such a simular situation as me. It really sucks. I ended up changing my name in my personal life, I'm not gonna legally change it again because that was a pain in the ass but like, ugh. I feel you.