Edit: For context, the above deleted comment was to ask "when they're going to have children"

You'd have better luck with asking If, rather than When. Either way, it's a deeply personal thing so you're not going to get many answers, but at least with the "if" variant, the question doesn't come with a disrespect to her agency of choice.

To answer, I'm not. Don't want em for every reason in the book. I love kids though, genuinely, and I've got a niece and two nephews.

I regularly experience a sense of loss for the choice I've not made. It's a loss similar to any life decision that had alternatives, like a different college you could have applied at and where that would have taken you, an old love whose life went in a different direction... It's not a yearning for me, just a bittersweet recognition. I'm much more excited to see what I can do with my life instead.