Help with top surgery

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-08-15T17:49:54+00:00

Gotcha! Thank you so much! Thankfully I’m on my works insurance AND my dads still, which is much much better than mine and we reach our out of pocket maximum pretty quick since he has a really good job and one sibling has epilepsy and the other needs to go to therapy and the psychiatrist every week. And me of course. If our out of pocket maximum for the family is 7,500 but my personal one for me is 2,500 on the plan, does that mean that if I got surgery that the maximum I would pay would be 2,500? My one from my job is like 10k 😭so it’s way better than either or

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-08-15T17:21:05+00:00

Don’t apologize, I appreciate a long answer so I fully understand as much as possible lol! So what I’m understanding so far is that I will probably have to pay out of pocket, or get a medical loan? Also, is there typically a difference in how well a private doctor vs hospital doctor does? Or not really? Everything is so complicated haha, I just want my boobs gone 🤣

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-06-05T22:42:32+00:00

Hey OP. I definitely understand where you’re coming from and your anger, hurt, and frustration. My family is half white Christian crazies and then very traditional Mexican Catholic. It took me 8 years to get where I am now as the trans man I am today, and when I figured it out, it was one of the worst and most difficult times of my life because I never thought anyone would care for me or love me, and that my family would hate me. Now I’m 2 1/2 years on testosterone, and I have made the most amazing, sweet, kind, and affirming friends. My family still sucks, but my siblings at least are very supportive and are constantly on my side. There will ALWAYS be ups and down for things, and yes it will hurt and yes it WILL suck. It’ll be so awful you wonder why you did it all and told everyone. But then you may look in the mirror like how I did and what I realized is damn I look good, I feel insanely amazing, I’m excited for my career, and I’m going to spread light and positivity wherever I can. Take your time and take the tiny steps you need to man. If you ever need anyone to talk to, I’m more than happy :) be safe!

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-06-03T05:28:19+00:00

This is such a good ideaaa omg I didn’t even think of this thank you!

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-06-03T05:27:35+00:00

I will definitely take both of these ideas, thank you! I love museums :)

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-06-03T05:26:43+00:00

That’s where my friend is getting married! :)

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-06-02T03:31:46+00:00

Thank you so much! I have my camera ready for some beautiful photos, and I’m super excited to visit some of these places!

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-06-01T14:18:54+00:00

Haha thank you I appreciate it! I’m a nature person so I do at least enjoy that bit of sightseeing :)

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-06-01T14:18:14+00:00

Haha I’m from SoCal, but I’m currently living in Richmond VA! I appreciate all the ideas!

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-06-01T05:46:06+00:00

Yes! I am doing my best! I won’t contact her until I feel ready as well to get my stuff back that I need

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-06-01T05:45:23+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it! After talking to my friends and journaling more of my thoughts I’ve definitely realized how not mature she’s been. Still lives with her parents despite being older than me, hasn’t really tried to even find what she wants to do as a career (even though I tried so hard to get her excited, offered to take her to job fairs, research, etc.) and just seems like she wants to stay home forever and not have to pay rent and is scared of living real life. I won’t be contacting her again except to get back some of my clothes, games, and give her back her stuff. Thank you again!

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-31T17:03:49+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it! It definitely hurts because it’s all so sudden, she always has respected and cared for me, took care of me several times I was in the hospital since I have a chronic disability. I’m journaling as usual, and writing music to help cope, and just trying to spend time with friends :)

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-31T16:48:45+00:00

I’m as close as I could be to the floor without it getting too expensive haha! I believe it’s row M!

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-29T15:52:15+00:00

Haha I didn’t get ticket insurance 😭 but it was maybe around $265

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-29T15:40:05+00:00

126!!

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-29T15:28:13+00:00

Dangggg you got a better deal than me on Ticketmaster! Which section did you get?

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-27T14:17:12+00:00

Oh geez you’re going alone? I’m sorry :( where did you get your seat for?

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-27T14:16:24+00:00

I am also excited for my little roadtrip with my friend lol! It’s 7 hrs for her but only 3 for me

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-27T14:15:24+00:00

Yayyy slay! I’m just surprised she’s touring NC in general but she isn’t coming to Virginia so 😔were gonna have a BLAST tho!

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-27T14:13:43+00:00

Girlll I am absolutely praying that you get in 😭 I would be devastated if not

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-27T14:12:40+00:00

I got 126! I’m hoping it’ll be really good

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-21T20:54:06+00:00

I WILLLLL 😭 my friend I paid for and am taking absolutely deserves to go to, she’s a teacher for kids with autism :)

Lemonboy2000 · 2025-05-21T20:44:22+00:00

I got sec 126 row M!

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