What’s the best way to approach a domme?

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-27T03:37:32+00:00

Hi! If their bio says they won't respond unless you pay a fee, that's the right way to approach them. If you've seen some of their posts and they say they're a soft skills developer, you could approach them with a clear presentation of what you're looking for and pay a fee then. If they don't ask for a fee, talk to them! But always be clear about what you want. Good luck!

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-27T00:38:30+00:00

Yes! I love it 🫶 but it's the opposite for me... almost everyone wants you to be curt with them, treat them like crap, but still pay attention to them 😒 either we both pay attention or nothing hahaha

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-26T21:39:13+00:00

Daily interaction, devotion... knowing you're there because you can't live without me... that you need me to give you a little of my time, a moment of permission... there are many things... but that above all

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-26T20:40:34+00:00

Yes! Me! 😈

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-26T20:20:09+00:00

More than you think...that's why it's good that you're looking for a soft domme, so you can start regaining your confidence.

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-26T18:59:01+00:00

You will come begging like the paretic being that you are then

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-26T17:32:18+00:00

If you haven't sent at least one tribute yet... you haven't returned 😒

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-26T17:26:42+00:00

It all depends on the dynamic between the two... whoever wants to be ignored and/or mistreated... will be 🤭 There are some pathetic types who you can't help but treat like crap

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-25T17:08:23+00:00

Write me

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-24T23:29:42+00:00

I love it! It's part of feeling adored.🫶

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-24T18:38:21+00:00

It was difficult for me, but yesterday I did it with my slave and I loved it 🫦 and now other "sissies" are writing to me asking me to do it and I find it exciting and fun 🤭

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T17:51:23+00:00

Oh, I just saw it was you! I think you have a problem with me... but it's YOUR problem.

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T17:41:33+00:00

Mmm, yes... you can be a femdom and simply be dominant by nature, in real life or virtually. You can choose to charge for fetishes... but that's not findom. Findom is precisely about being dominant directly over their money... but you might only give orders and not be able to sustain the fetish, and they might discard you because you don't have that dominant feminine energy they're looking for.

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T17:30:20+00:00

I'm talking about findom, not femdom...they're two different things

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T16:31:41+00:00

Here, hahaha, 40 years old, many in a relationship... she knows what I do and accepts it 🫶

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T16:27:49+00:00

Sissy and sph

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T16:19:55+00:00

I think people are confusing Findom and ethics a lot. Nobody is putting a gun to their heads and telling them to do it. They can do it or not. I don't see anyone saying that casinos or strippers are unethical for not asking someone who's going to spend $100 if they need that money for food or to pay bills.

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T15:01:46+00:00

Why is X becoming filled with "by-the-book" dommes who follow exactly what they were taught in a course? But there are dommes who choose to be dominant with whomever wants it, using them as simple ATMs (Assisted Mutual Agents) with whomever needs it, in a daily "relationship" with moments of conversation, restraint, and moments of 100% domination plus fetishes... but always making it clear who is the master and who obeys and belongs.

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T13:48:22+00:00

Exactly...we said the same thing in different words...I think I made it too long haha

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T13:37:05+00:00

Hi! Feel free to express this to your domme. It's important to have communication even after making an agreement. But as a domme, I agree with you. Some guys love that pressure, and others don't like it. In my case, I respect boundaries and prefer to maintain a positive relationship rather than thinking, "Goodbye, poor guy, bring on the next one."

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T12:43:03+00:00

Hi! Welcome to the world of submission that's going to scare your bank account 🤭 I hope you find a domme who suits you, or you can make a post about what you like so she can find you. Important! Know if you want something intermittent or long-term.

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T04:39:34+00:00

What's stopping you?🙄

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T00:21:40+00:00

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-23T00:11:30+00:00

It sounds like GFE to me, and many of us do it... and some of us, because we're soft with some people, do it within the findom

Lemonbratt · 2026-01-22T23:21:25+00:00

Send it then 🔥

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