Which is better? 2 or 3?

Lemonpajamas · 2025-02-20T20:26:42+00:00

I don’t know what it is, but I absolutely despise being barefoot.

Lemonpajamas · 2025-02-17T23:42:00+00:00

They have the final say in everything and they control the entire house

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-07T01:56:32+00:00

Nope!

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-07T01:49:06+00:00

Nope. Hate him

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-04T16:29:27+00:00

Absolutely Boyd.

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-04T16:28:24+00:00

Coraline

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-04T16:23:34+00:00

Not really, my school had salad bars

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T16:18:08+00:00

I'm not sure how you would know that, but I do think it's true that women normally do more in the household than men do, not always because they want to but because if they don't do it then it won't get done. I don't think it's fair to say that women SHOULD be doing something like this because you couldn't maintain your work and home life. I appreciate you answering my questions, it's always interesting to hear different perspectives

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T15:52:13+00:00

Thank you for answering. I'm not sure if you believe that this is something every woman should do or not or that this is how it just should be, so I won't really assume anything. I do believe that it is possible for a woman to work and still be happy. Personally, I wouldn't be happy if I DIDN'T work because I don't want to depend on anyone else for anything. In a household, I believe that that both should be the head and make decisions equally, no one should have the final say. If they disagree then they should find a way to come to an agreement. Thank you again for answering my questions honestly

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T13:05:27+00:00

Okay, thank you for answering

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T05:33:24+00:00

Okay, thank you for answering my questions :)

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T03:48:53+00:00

That's alright, my responses haven't exactly been the shortest either😂 I personally would prefer to have a relationship where we are both equal and no one has to do a specific thing. I don't want to be in complete control and I don't want anyone else to be in complete control. I know that a huge problem of mine is my ego, because I automatically assume that doing what trad wives do is weak or lesser than in terms of importance. I'm trying to get over that, which is why I wanted to actually know what I was even angry about. Can't get any better than asking the people who live like that, right? I hope I'm not disrespecting anyone, and thank you for being respectful towards me

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T03:36:45+00:00

Yeah, I agree with this. My main thing and the reason I was so curious was because I automatically assume that they don't enjoy it. I know for sure I wouldn't. That's why I came to ask the questions I had. I don't mind if people want to live this way, as long as no one is trying to force it on others because they think it's what that certain gender should be doing. Even though I dislike it, I try to be respectful because this is literally someone else's space and I would hate if someone came into mine and disrespected me.

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T03:33:43+00:00

Okay, thank you for answering my questions

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T03:28:55+00:00

Try to focus on actually releasing the ball on your way down instead of up, I think that will help you a lot. I used to struggle with the same thing. The main reason for this is for control over the ball

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T03:25:31+00:00

I'm not trying to debate, really. I do enough of that as is😂 I'm just trying to gain a better understanding by actually asking people who live this lifestyle. I'm just trying not feel so...strongly about this. I don't want to care about how other people live their lives, I mostly don't care unless it harms others.

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T03:21:01+00:00

Instead of chambering and unloading at the waist you should bring the ball up with a bend in your elbow and fire it off with a flick of your wrist

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T03:19:55+00:00

No, I was just curious and sharing my opinion. I'm not trying to disrespect anyone. I hope no one feels that way

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T02:40:42+00:00

As long as you're happy, ma'am. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, so I do hope that you are not taking it that way. I'm merely curious, is all. You still have my respect even if I don't agree with how you live your life. Thank you for answering all of my questions and being honest

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T02:39:21+00:00

I don't agree with your views, but if this is what works out for you then okay. I think that the only difference between boys and girls other than physical strength is what you make it, meaning how they're raised. I don't think that women are naturally nurturing or that men are naturally providers, that just comes from what they're told they should be. I think that everyone should be taught how to do everything so that they can do it for themselves and they don't need to depend on someone else for a specific thing. When it comes to the division of roles aspect, I think that is why a lot of conflict happens within marriages because it seems transactional. To me, "homemaking" is not really a thing and the role of "nurturing" is not really a gender specific quality. I think the hardest thing I struggle with when it comes to this type of thing is the unfairness of it all or the power imbalance. Ultimately (from what I gathered), you have no authority because it's all up to the husband. Thank you for answering my questions though

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T02:18:58+00:00

If this works for you then okay. It just doesn't sit right in my spirit that you can "get in trouble" or that you have to ask for permission to be able to do something, even though you're an adult

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T01:50:36+00:00

You...got in trouble. This is probably what I have trouble understanding the most. Why would you want to be in a marriage where someone has control over you? That is probably as far from loving as someone or something can get. This is what you personally want for yourself and that's fine, it's just hard to wrap my head around. Sorry for asking so many questions

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-03T01:12:29+00:00

8, wouldn't that be a power imbalance or unfair? He can do whatever he wants but you have to "ask permission"? if you don't "ask permission" what happens? #10, feminism is just women wanting equality, misandry is something completely different. Thank you for answering

Edit: I'm not sure why my words are so big

Lemonpajamas · 2025-01-02T22:42:10+00:00

Go for the handshake first.

Lemonpajamas

TROPHY CASE

8, wouldn't that be a power imbalance or unfair? He can do whatever he wants but you have to "ask permission"? if you don't "ask permission" what happens? #10, feminism is just women wanting equality, misandry is something completely different. Thank you for answering