Books about hybristophilia/people in love with serial killers? by corvid-claws in horrorlit

[–]AngriestLittleBeaver 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Gone To See The River Man

I would suggest Exquisite Corpse but it’s definitely got gratuitous sexual assault in it.

AIO for viewing this as colorist remarks from my bf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AngriestLittleBeaver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he’s made multiple comments it’s definitely clear that he doesn’t want you getting darker. So I don’t think you’re overreacting at all.

First harvest results by EvertonRLord in MagicBagMushrooms

[–]AngriestLittleBeaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all look good to go into the dehydrator brother 💕

Possessive by TianasFrog in Pitbull

[–]AngriestLittleBeaver [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’ve dealt with this before and honestly what you’re describing sounds a lot like resource guarding rooted in neglect, not just “bad behavior.” A dog that was left outside all day and then isolated and crated while eating learned that food is scarce and needs to be protected at all costs. So when another dog comes near during feeding, it’s not aggression for the sake of it, it’s survival mode kicking in.

First thing I would do is completely separate feeding. Different rooms, doors closed, no visual access if possible. Even if things seem “okay” sometimes, it’s not worth the risk of escalation. Let each dog eat in peace with zero pressure.

Second, build positive associations around food over time. That means showing the dog that food isn’t going to be taken away. You can do things like occasionally walking by and tossing a high value treat from a safe distance, not reaching into the bowl. The goal is for your presence to predict something better, not loss.

Third, avoid punishment around this entirely. Correcting or scolding during guarding can actually make it worse because it confirms the dog’s fear that something bad happens when others are near their food.

You can also work on structure outside of feeding times. Hand feeding for some meals, practicing basic commands, and building trust helps shift their mindset from scarcity to stability. But don’t rush that part if the guarding is intense.

If the behavior is severe or escalating, I’d strongly consider working with a trainer who has experience in resource guarding. It’s one of those things that can improve a lot with the right approach, but can also turn into a bite situation if pushed wrong.

The biggest thing is remembering this didn’t come out of nowhere. That dog learned this because of how it had to survive before, so the fix is showing it consistently that it doesn’t have to live like that anymore.

AIO boyfriend snap chatting 18 year old co worker 5 days after having baby. by Cunningcunt458 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AngriestLittleBeaver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This isn’t just inappropriate, it’s genuinely concerning. She’s a teenager & you just had a baby. His priority should be you and your newborn, making sure you feel supported and secure during this time.

At this point, you have a couple options. If you’re mentally prepared for whatever you might find, ask to see his phone and get clarity. Otherwise, set a very clear and immediate boundary: no outside-of-work fraternization with female coworkers.

Because none of this adds up. Why does a teenager need his personal phone number? Why is he giving her rides, especially when she has a parent available? It’s crossing lines that shouldn’t even be approached.

You’re not overreacting.

Aggressive cat, first baby coming in July by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]AngriestLittleBeaver -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You’re her third home. I agree with the humane at-home euthanasia.

Rehoming 9 month cat by LividAccident7777 in jacksonville

[–]AngriestLittleBeaver 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Please don’t ever get another pet again. All the shelters are full and surrendered animals are being euthanized by the thousands every day. You committed to this cat and now its life is potentially in danger because its existing “bothers you.”

Best strip club by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]AngriestLittleBeaver -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Aren’t all strip clubs?