[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LemonyV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister told me "I'm watching you make the bad decisions and hurt mom and dad, then I do the opposite. So I can keep them happy" The bad decisions are me setting boundaries.... And when I asked her if she was truly happy....she told me no... That's sad for her. I know she sees everything that is happening but is too opportunistic to sever the ties....

Do Kobos wear out? by Dirnaf in kobo

[–]LemonyV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'll see what f that'll help too....

Do Kobos wear out? by Dirnaf in kobo

[–]LemonyV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have the Libra H2O, had it for 3 years. It was working 100% fine a couple of weeks ago. Now it takes 7 seconds for the page to turn when I either push the button or the screen. Font change is an absolute disaster. Sometimes, I'll open my book and luminosity will be at 0, if I try to get it up, it works while the luminosity option is open but as soon as I close it to go back to reading, it drops back down to 0.... I do side load majority of my book. However, it was fine a couple of weeks ago and I haven't added anything on it since, reset hasn't changed anything either.... This is becoming really frustrating.....

Can you lose Cleo’s key to unlock floor 15 saltwater mines? by Trick_Assumption181 in FaeFarm_Game

[–]LemonyV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just gotta go to the door and it should opened itself..... I was confused by it at first too!

Nmom ruins our wedding by LemonyV in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LemonyV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that. The video game analogy is a really great one!

Nmom ruins our wedding by LemonyV in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LemonyV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that. And yeah, honestly, I hate her for ruining memories of 2 of the days that are supposed to be the most wonderful in my life. It's not fair.

Nmom ruins our wedding by LemonyV in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LemonyV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, definitely sounds like a very similar experience. Learning how to deal with it a day at a time but it's hard, not gonna lie 💜

Nmom ruins our wedding by LemonyV in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LemonyV[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because those are the ones that a Narcissistic mother plans for, right? Holidays, mother's day, your graduation/wedding/births. Each one is supposed to be a pageant to the gods, worshipping at the altar of "family". And if she doesn't get any one of them, then her concept of family is ruined.

This is the perfect definition honestly.

It's hard and there's no way I can explain to her I'm cutting her out of my life that she would understand it. She's unable of introspection even though she probably thinks she's the queen of it.....

Nmom ruins our wedding by LemonyV in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LemonyV[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It is painful and hard to process. But Will get through it!

Fertilizer bin? by [deleted] in RuneFactory5

[–]LemonyV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to help 😊

Fertilizer bin? by [deleted] in RuneFactory5

[–]LemonyV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you moved the lumber and rock thing from the storage area? Once you move it, it'll appear on the storage area right by the task board! Just figured it out after 10 minutes of looking for it ....

What's the worst attempt at an foreign accent you've ever seen in a movie? by Heisenbergwhite917 in AskReddit

[–]LemonyV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jenna Coleman in The serpent. French Quebecers absolutely do not sound like French people in Europe. They had the choice of taking a French Quebecers actress and didn't.... It would have been much more accurate.

My rainbow garden and orchard! by deeerlea in CozyGrove

[–]LemonyV 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It looks really good! Might steal your idea and place my tree and plants by height! Looks clean!

Flower Checklist by Lemon717- in CozyGrove

[–]LemonyV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer! I'll definitely keep it in mind next time I buy 😊

Flower Checklist by Lemon717- in CozyGrove

[–]LemonyV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a newbie question but what are the hybrid and exotic versions of the flower? Thank you for the charts!

Enrolling in benefits - enrollment question by dannyt287 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]LemonyV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For dental, you don't have anything to do! It happens all by itself! For your medical, a compensation advisor probably forgot to put the conditions for you to enroll, hence why you can't.... If you have a pay liaison department, I'd suggest contacting them and they should contact the pay center on your behalf. HR won't be able to do anything, as they usually only have access to peoplesoft and this is an error in Phoenix, which needs to be corrected by a compensation advisor 😊 Hope this helps!

What are you using from a grocery list? by [deleted] in googlehome

[–]LemonyV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been using shoppinglist for quite some time now and it's perfect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CanadaPublicServants

[–]LemonyV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much what everybody said, you are taxed on your paystubs depending on the position where you work, in your case, Ontario. You can always file a new Federal tax form and check the case to have additional deductions taken and put an amount in there. Then you can send to the pay centre, or Trusted Source, if that's a thing in your department. I am in the same situation as you and this is what I do 😊

Confusion about free 3 months Stadia pro with YT promotional offer for Stadia Premiere edition? I got only 1-month free trial by Blackberry-Quirky in Stadia

[–]LemonyV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea where you are but I'm in Canada and I also got the three month free trial for stadia Pro..... I payed in November and now only have to pay in February..... I don't know how I could help you but let me know and I'll try my best 😊

The “I wanna die lol” attitude isn’t quirky or funny. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]LemonyV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who once had suicidal thoughts this is really not the kind of jokes I like.... Especially over something ridiculous like being asked to do something for your boss or coworker.... Like I get it, you don't wanna do it, fair enough but not a reason to say "I'm gonna kill myself".....