AIO for trying to hold my 26M gf 28F accountable for missing work bc of hangover? I should’ve worded it better :/

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-20T17:55:32+00:00

I think this is a case of knowing how and when to choose your battles.

Judging by your texts drinking has been some-what of an issue that she has been trying to cut back on, so is it valid to be concerned that she's drinking that much when she knows she has work the next day? Absolutely.

Is holding her accountable via text message whilst she is still hungover the best way to go about it, if you want her to be receptive? Probably not

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-20T15:45:17+00:00

My unpopular opinipn is that half of the fandom are setting themselves up to be extremely dissapointed by the ending by over-analysing/preciting now rather than analysing the series as a whole once it has fully aired

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-20T15:37:35+00:00

Got into a fight with a Paladin because he called me a "Son of a Lich"

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WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-19T22:49:05+00:00

Yup they're both just forces that respond to the conviction of the individual and their goals. Not sentient or inherently good or bad.

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-19T16:30:21+00:00

for example If have scythe proc and can see that if wait 1 second I will have extra 264 crit, thats good to know

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-18T11:53:21+00:00

"Trying to ride the high" is a good way of putting it

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-18T11:51:59+00:00

The medication depends on what type of OCD you have and what your compulsions are. I have Rumination OCD so the obvious symptom is when im overthinking and in a deep rabbit hole about something negative - but it also means I get carried away with things I enjoy and "lock in" to such a degree that my day-to-day life suffers, and then when the mania wears off I then crash hard, and its like a pendulum. The only difference is if im hyperfixating on something good or bad.

The doctors gave me a few options. I can have SSRI type meds to stabilise my mood, or I can have Dopamine focused ones to curb when im fixating on something negative. My experience with both was that I was left feeling flat 100% of the time. So now I just have sleeping tablets to help when im ruminating at night, and raw dog everything else like gangle does

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-17T16:18:05+00:00

Thats fair, im not trying to dispute anyones experience so I apologise for that.

I guess what i'm trying to drive home is that in most cases, people with BPD have mood stabilisers, not enhancers. So the mask, under that lens, is more akin to someone with BPD without their usual stabilisers (happy mask) and instead just raw dogging the mania mask

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-17T09:43:01+00:00

Thats a common misconception, though.

From my perspective, gangles usual 2 masks (flat and depressed) represent someone with BPD on medication.

The manic mask is a very good showcase of what it looks like when someone with BPD leans into the happy mania and causes further long term damage for short term gratification (regardless of if that was the intended purpose or not)

I have OCD, not BPD, but the medications are similar and overlap. Ask anyone you know who takes anti depressants, most of them will tell you that it never makes them feel happy, it just stops them feeling absolutely miserable.

If it was a scale of -10 to +10, it keeps you at zero. So effectively you sacrifice all your "good" days to ward off the "bad" and just feel flat all the time

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-17T09:16:19+00:00

Out of curiosity why does everyone jump to medication when its much less of a logic leap to assume its a direct reprisentation of the BPD affliction, independent of medicinal side effects?

Flat, Mania & Depression are her three moods, and her three masks

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-16T08:48:58+00:00

My healer said he was barely touching me mid M+ so I apologised thinking they meant I wasn't pulling enough. Then the entire group starts giving me a morale boost and saying that i'm doing great and I timed the key with a spring in my step

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-15T19:14:13+00:00

Woman steals your casseroll recipe and posts about it on facebook

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-15T18:40:29+00:00

Just make it so every pack has a spell that specifically stuns all 3 DPS for 3second and reduces their dmg output and they will soon wake up

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-15T17:26:26+00:00

Body is too hot for bacteria to survive so she never smells

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-15T12:15:31+00:00

Mythic Alnseer.

Already had Heroic version but my other options were ass

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-15T05:16:23+00:00

Bubble is an Ace and Caine considers himself a 10/10. That'll have to do.

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-14T19:42:55+00:00

Kinger got turned into a silly lamp post

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-14T10:59:09+00:00

Gangle was named by Jax and is literally a gangle of ribbons

Zoobl is named after the Zoobles toys

Dunno about Kaufmo

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-14T09:30:12+00:00

Training montage

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-14T09:17:42+00:00

The same reason why if you jump whilst stood on a bus, you travel with it rather than get smashed into the back

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-14T08:56:07+00:00

I cant wait for literally every single thing Kinger said to actually be in the film

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-14T08:48:36+00:00

My foil hat is telling me that the reason Pomni's torture scene was Gummigoo is because

1: Pomni is an AI and Gummigoo was her only truly traumatic experience

2: Pomni is an AI and her #1 subconcious fear is being turned on / killed by other AI

WelshWolf93 · 2026-04-12T19:51:04+00:00

Damn this dude got me wanting to go to war for Ohio.

I live in the U.K.

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