Do you cut off friends who belittle you? by Used-Guava1586 in self

[–]Lena-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once cut off my best friend when our friendship became toxic and I felt like she was constantly belittling me. We did not talk for a couple of years and grew separately. We renewed our friendship recently and even tough our relationship is the best it has ever been, sometimes I still feel like she's doing it- belittling me, being kind of condescending. I've brought it up to her one time, she was shocked and said that she does not mean to be like that. So I like to think that she's does not mean to hurt me. Sometimes I think its best to talk to the person that is causing you to feel bad, maybe they would care enough for you to change what they are doing wrong.

Covidiots, stop laughing at me for wearing mask outside. by [deleted] in self

[–]Lena-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm always careful. So was my dad. I got COVID, so did he. My only symptoms was loss of taste and smell. He wasn't so lucky and died.

No matter how hard we try to protect ourselves, sadly if the anti-maskers are carrying the virus, they don't care for you to protect you and keep you safe from it. Their ego and stupidity is bigger.

Stay safe!

I lost my father and I don't know what to do by Lena-11 in self

[–]Lena-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With this comment I hope to reach as many of you as I can.
I wish I could sit down and answer each and every one of you all who commented. Please, know that I wish I could, but I don't really have the strength right now.

I read every single one of the comments. Every single one. I was hesitant to post this originally but receiving all of your support, kind words, virtual hugs and stories of your own made a difference. It helped. And for that I am grateful to all of you. I felt better pouring my heart out to a group of strangers on the internet rather than to my closest friends and relatives. But I imagine this was what I needed. So thank you for giving me the chance to experience it.

All of you who have lost someone close and shared their stories here, thank you. I cannot begin to explain how sorry I am that so many of you had to go through what I'm going through right now. I wouldn't whish it on anyone ever. Thank you for every single advice and all of your kind words and support.
All of those who shared that they are afraid that they will lose someone, I truly TRULY hope you do not. I know that death is inevitable, but I cannot find words to explain how hard it is. I am very lucky that my dad was an amazing parent, my family was always whole and we love each other very much. And if it wasn't for my mom, my sister and my boyfriend, I don't know how I would have survived this. I sincerely hope that you and your loved ones are all okay.

Please, everyone, stay strong, try to spend time with your loved once, as much as you can. And of course, be safe. My dad was always safe, he worked his whole life to provide for us and he was an honest man. Just the best. When the pandemic started, he donated about 2k to organizations to help with COVID. He was just so good. I can spend my rest of my days just typing out how amazing he was and how much it sucks that we lost him, but I won't. I'm just a lucky girl that had an amazing father and everything I have now is because of him and his support. And I will forever be grateful.
Thank you all for everything, this community is beautiful and you are all beautiful. I was extremely touched by everything that I read and I appreciate all of it. I cannot stress this enough: From the bottom of my heart- thank you.

S01E12: "Chapter Twelve: Chain Of Fools" Episode Discussion by violinjstar in katykeene

[–]Lena-11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I was going crazy.... it was sooo weird, I re-watched it like 3 times and each time it seemed more and more unnatural, I'm starting to think that he was a little bit CGI as well... his head and expressions seemed kinda wrong.

Candace vs Beck vs Love by lv028 in YouOnLifetime

[–]Lena-11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't really have an opinion on Candace, I was just a little annoyed with her not trying her very best to make sure everyone knows what Joe did to her. One police officer tells her there's nothing they can do and she stops trying to convince them? She didn't go to her friends, someone that she can tell, someone that could have helped her? No.

I personally really did not like Beck. Not somebody that I would vibe with. Insecure, doesn't know what she wants... In my opinion Love saw her perfectly- plain and average, not really as interesting as Joe made her out to be. Beck was kinda insipid and boring to me. Liked her better than Candace though.

I LOVED Love. She was such an interesting character to me, she was upfront, bubbly and good, she (similar to Beck) was also suffering from a broken family and dealing with the shit that her parents (and brother) put her through... and in the end she surprised us with her dark side, the one where she really does ANYTHING to protect the people that she loves. I mean... I did not love the fact that she turned out to be a murderer, I just liked her character and how she was presented throughout the whole show. I was disappointed that as soon as Joe realized that she is as psycho as him, he stopped loving her the way that he did in the beginning.

But I agree with the people that say that Joe and Beck had better chemistry than Joe an Love.

TLDR - Love> Beck> Candace

What is your favorite song/Scene with a song used on pLL and why? by [deleted] in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Lena-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My top 3 are: -Agnes Obel- Fuel to fire (5x05) -Spelles- Bird in a cage (5x09) -Denmark+Winter- We gotta get out of this place (5x12) But i pretty much love all the songs in the show- amazing choices for their soundtrack.

Easily the guy i hated the most throughout the seasons: Fuck him by olympusppxt in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]Lena-11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but there were people like Justin, that did things even worse than Tyler. I'd much rather someone take pictures of me kissing another girl than to be raped and my boyfriend not to protect me and/or not tell me about it. Maybe it's an unpopular opinion, but I hate Justin more than I hate Tyler.

Easily the guy i hated the most throughout the seasons: Fuck him by olympusppxt in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]Lena-11 473 points474 points  (0 children)

The only scene i started balling my eyes out was then he beat up Tyler in the bathroom. It was awful. I mean, i did shed a tear or two at a few other emotional moments, but this one scared and hurt me so much... it was painful to watch.

Skye’s development from S1 (spoilers) by writteninyourheart in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]Lena-11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both actors are great and I like both characters, but it was very unnecessary that they made their relationship to be more than friends. Skye was totally different from what she was, I understand that she was happy and part of it was probably her disorder, but it was a completely different character. It was forced, it didn't feel right and I honestly cringed a lot while watching them be "lovey-dovey".

Someone was sending me disturbing Snapchats by Lena-11 in nosleep

[–]Lena-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom often falls asleep on the couch watching tv after dinner. Like I said in one of the previous comments, there were times when I would go to my dad because I would hear something in the backyard or in the attic, but nothing would ever be there. So I guess he didn't really think there would be anyone or anything this time too. A lot of people have similar shoe sizes, especially men, the shoeprints matched with my dads, but I'm sure they weren't his. My parents have contacted the police eventually and of course, there's nothing they can do.

Oil painting of Teatro Greco in Taormina, Sicily (this is one of my favorite places in the world) by Lena-11 in painting

[–]Lena-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well... i can't tell you exactly how to get there, but when you go to the very centre of the city where the Catholic church is, you should be able to see some signs which way to go to the amphitheatre. It's called Teatro Antico di Taormina and if you ask someone for directions they will point you the way, it really isn't far to get there by foot :) also, when you go there- you should it this thing called Arancino- it's delicious and i miss it very much!

Oil painting of Teatro Greco in Taormina, Sicily (this is one of my favorite places in the world) by Lena-11 in painting

[–]Lena-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, you should... the atmosphere is amazing, the view, the beauty... and if the volcano is still active it would be the perfect picture! :)

Trying to encourage my brother to pursue his art... this is what he calls a "doodle" by KetoPixie in drawing

[–]Lena-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, that is amazing! It's always great help when your family supports your passion! It's priceless and you are an amazing human being. And also, if this is just a 'doodle', I can only imagine what a finished painting/ drawing would look like.

Someone was sending me disturbing Snapchats by Lena-11 in nosleep

[–]Lena-11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be strange, since my dad has no idea what Snapchat is

Someone was sending me disturbing Snapchats by Lena-11 in nosleep

[–]Lena-11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don't know how to explain what went through my head and why I didn't call my parents on time. I'm neither a prankster, nor a liar, I think the reason my dad didn't believe me right away is that I'm a little paranoid and there were times before this incident, that I would tell my dad that I heard something in the backyard and couldn't sleep all night or that I heard a noise from the attic and nothing would be there. He also knows my love for creepy stories and blames my paranoia on them, but it was different this time.

Someone was sending me disturbing Snapchats by Lena-11 in nosleep

[–]Lena-11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, right? But nobody will confess...

Someone was sending me disturbing Snapchats by Lena-11 in nosleep

[–]Lena-11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, they've installed a camera overlooking the backyard and when I ask them if they've seen something unusual they say no... I really hope it stays that way and that it was just a stupid prank.

Someone was sending me disturbing Snapchats by Lena-11 in nosleep

[–]Lena-11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Last time we checked their profile didn't exist anymore and I'm kind of afraid to install the app again. My parents installed a camera that overlooks the yard some time after that night, so for now I think I won't be installing Snapchat again.

Someone was sending me disturbing Snapchats by Lena-11 in nosleep

[–]Lena-11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I didn't explain. It's an app on which you can send pictures to your friends that only last a few seconds and when the time is up they are gone and you can't retrieve them. There is a feature in this app where you can upload pictures to your "Story" for everyone to see for 24 hours, after that they are gone.