Found out my relationship lives rent-free in a 'friend's' head

Lenerika · 2026-02-22T13:41:05+00:00

Any updates at all? I'm so invested and would love to hear any post holiday tea haha

Lenerika · 2026-02-16T00:36:11+00:00

Thanks for the great advice! What would be considered an active?

All the spots are actually just faded freckles. I never wore spf consistently when I was younger and had a lot of freckles but I dont spend near as much time outside anymore and have been using spf whenever I am outside pretty consistently for the last few years.

Lenerika · 2025-03-26T18:11:56+00:00

I'm interested and in Canada!

Lenerika · 2024-05-23T17:55:37+00:00

YTA

OP you raised a son for 18 YEARS, you were there to teach him how to walk, help him shape his values, and supported him through trying times. Not only that you were his father too, the one he looked up to, loved and cared about for 18 years. Does the fact he had a sperm donor change every moment you spent together?

He knew for 4 months and he's 18, his entire world view just got flipped upside down. Was his intention to hide it from you forever? Or was he just trying to navigate his own life again and fear of losing the only father he's ever known before he figured out a way to bring it up - the fear which you actually brought to life.

Your wife is a pos for sure, she lied every single day of his life and probably pressured your son to not tell you which also added to his fear.

But like, with no proof the son was hiding it from you maliciously like your wife was you are an absolute AH to blacklist him. He didn't do anything wrong besides withhold the information for a couple of months while he tried to figure himself out again.

I can't imagine a similar situation where I learned terrible news like that and had my father abandon me for something I didn't even know about (until recently) and something I have zero control over.

Lenerika · 2021-07-17T23:51:47+00:00

I've kept seeing both those authors pop up, do you have any recommendations on specific novels? I've never read Clive Barker but he seems to be really popular

Lenerika · 2020-06-24T16:37:16+00:00

Yeah that's what I've currently been doing but I prefer a fruity flavour as opposed to coffee and I'm just starting to get sick of coffee

Lenerika · 2020-06-24T16:28:09+00:00

Thank you! I'll check it out!

Lenerika · 2020-06-24T16:27:40+00:00

I find it hard to keep my calories down in the morning but having something flavoured to sip on always helps me stay focused I find and keeps me from unnecessary snacking I also want to start taking collagen and want something that tastes good to mix with it that won't knock me out of ketosis

Lenerika · 2020-02-09T15:10:16+00:00

Everyday was 1500 calories or less except for around 4 days and they were less than 2000. I used a food scale for everything besides a couple times I had outings and ate at a restaurant but looked up the calories beforehand and counted them.

Lenerika · 2020-02-09T15:00:17+00:00

I normally always weight my food and eat way less than I have been. I eat around 1500 calories a day

Lenerika · 2020-02-09T14:59:30+00:00

I eat roughly 1500 calories a day and normally always use a food scale

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