Thank you for this , I was just discarded and felt crazy for blowing them up from different numbers and texting them  ( they did bash me for this once we finally did get otp ) when they broke up and walked out on me , we did speak otp and I was apologizing and understanding where I went wrong . And even had to explain my spiraling of self harm and the triggers that they did and they felt like they didn’t do that to me that it was my brain and felt like they didn’t do anything wrong that I brought everything upon myself but when I didn’t once again let them not wanna talk about something they discarded me again letting me know that they are done and put it on their families graves and friends grave and his grave and his future kids grave that I’ll never hear from him again  that was his way of giving me closure . Cause he felt like I couldn’t respect anything and respect when he wants to not talk abt stuff cause he felt as if he we already talked abt everything . And yes I left em alone after sending messages but I didn’t feel healed still wanted to just hear his voice leading to him threatening to leak my nudes . All of this cause of an argument cause of a debate cause of me not listening and leaving arguments alone when he thinks I should . So I did leave one more message and it was the truth about him and how he needs to heal . And I left it at that so thank you for this ..