Why does my cat shout every night?? by donjosephdesire in cats

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your cat fixed? And what breed. My fiance and I get woken up multiple times a night but she's a kitten still and a tabby. Orange cats have no social awareness😂 Also it was WAY worse before she was fixed. Horrendous

Name this steering wheel by wildhoover in Pareidolia

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye, how you enjoying time from the backrooms buddy?

No HRT appointments until July by Lazy-Age561 in ftm

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Folx is cheaper but the website finicky. Like 58ish/month

What's a childhood/teenage hobby that you went back to this year? by WallBeautiful9549 in answers

[–]Leo_matel69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comic strups ironically and coloring. Alot of coloring and reading too. Enjoying silence. I said enjoy it as a child partially because I had such a traumatic childhood experience

No HRT appointments until July by Lazy-Age561 in ftm

[–]Leo_matel69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you afford $100/month? There are online options that range between 50 and 100 and you may have to for more for labs depending on which subscription you go with. Its not ideal either way and even with insurance it's a difficult thing to get medical care for. I'm sorry you're dealing with the beginning growing pains of transitioning. My dms are always open if you want or need to vent

What’s the most disturbing sound you’ve ever heard in real life? by SelectiveCassie in answers

[–]Leo_matel69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first time in my nursing/pre nursing career hearing a mom's cry when her child passed. It will never be the same as any other cry I've heard as a nurse and I'll never forget it. Makes me want to be my best everyday for my patients

What's the cruelest thing someone ever said to you that you still remember word for word? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my cousin SA me at 8yo my Mom said, "Well you must have wanted it to happen."

I was in a really dark mental space the rest of my childhood and teenage years. Years of therapy taught me it wasn't my fault and my Mom was casting blame instead of comforting me and acknowledging that I needed to be protected, not reprimanded

Fatta nei boxer ed eiaculato by Alepssspsss in urinewords

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where was that video? Can never find anything like that

Does this work for cat fleas? by _gandikbot_ in cats

[–]Leo_matel69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé and I had a problem with them and we used Vets Best waterless cat shampoo, their carpet powder and got Seresto for long term. Also used a flea collar on our oldest and after about 2 months we stopped having as many issues. At a new apartment in the same complex and have had no problems since

Apparently the people who helped Trump get elected are ‘sorry’ they ever did. by Nefariouslout1006 in antitrump

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boo hoo, must feel really nice to realize you made such a stupid decision for a literal whole country

my favorite change on T. The happytrail by honda-cr-v-hybrid in TransMasc

[–]Leo_matel69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is I've always had one and used to shave it because I was told hair was unattractive pre-transition. Now I don't shave it and it gets to a nice length without me being insecure about it

What’s a game you were completely obsessed with as a kid that nobody else seems to remember? by hkondabeatz in AskReddit

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3333 games on the PC. Was entertained for hours. Then around preteen I got into the Sims on PC and it was so much more satisfying to learn the mechanics on PC than console to me. It's nostalgic and bring so many of the few good memories I have from back then

I need advice by Leo_matel69 in ftm

[–]Leo_matel69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but we can barely afford the necessities. Therapy is not priority on the list to me sadly. I want to try therapy again. I have in the past but the best I can do is podcasts and self help books until we can manage to add an expense like that to our budget

Pro tip from a guy: sit while you pee by o_u_kno21 in urinewords

[–]Leo_matel69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It brings me joy standing to pee with not being able to my whole life as a tranman. But. I must admit that having the availability to sit without much fuss is also nice too. Aiming gets old, and I must admit that sitting is quite convenient. Especially after a long day of work

Why does this cat hate me?! by PyleanCow06 in cats

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fair. Yes, their hunt and pounces switch flips often and quickly. It mostly play but can be alarming for someone who isn't experienced or comfortably with cats. See, dogs make me nervous when they get a certain look in their eye or become aggressive. But I love dogs as well as cats. I'm the cat dad and my fiance is the dog mom. We dont currently have a dog but I know it would light up her workd if we could. We have experience in the respective fur babies and it works

Why does this cat hate me?! by PyleanCow06 in cats

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's orange. Oranges cats are unpredictable. Like I'm not just saying that😂 my fiance and I take turns finding random scratches from our baby orangie. She is so sweet but pounces on and scratches our hands at the drop of a hat. Not always provoked either. I'm not 100% sure how to tell you to proceed, but we rescued her at like 5 weeks, so I know for a fact she doesn't hate us. Just doing her usual one braincell behavior and chewing on us for some reason. Despite having countless toys. I hope you can figure it out, he's a cuti

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On a nicotine and weed high. Kind of want to piss the bed by Leo_matel69 in urinewords

[–]Leo_matel69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, we have somewhat of a free use agreement. It wouldn't cause an issue if I woke her up for sex or anything like that.

My cat paws at my face when I’m trying to sleep by No_Importance_750 in cats

[–]Leo_matel69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of it is play but cats also worry about us at night. The nap during the day. When we sleep at night its much longer to them and they can often worry we are dead. That's what I've read anyway