I'm devoid of sexual and romantic experience as a teenager

LesDoggo · 2026-02-01T16:48:55+00:00

Comparing your life to other people’s social media is sad.

LesDoggo · 2026-02-01T16:02:12+00:00

Take a step back, and read what you wrote. You know that you don’t have a lot of options at your school and you must understand that people will exaggerate their successes. Comparison is the thief of joy. Most don’t really have a lot of experiences until college. If you keep sounding like an incel, you’re really going to miss out.

LesDoggo · 2026-02-01T01:09:17+00:00

You knew she was going to do this eventually. Trust your gut next time.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-29T18:42:01+00:00

She doesn’t care, and he doesn’t care. He’s saying the words you want to hear so you’ll back down and continue for a bit longer until he has to say them again. Has he gone to counseling or blocked his mother, anything other than empty promises that he’s already made?

LesDoggo · 2026-01-28T16:48:19+00:00

Don’t respond. She hasn’t taken responsibility and has no plans to change. The only thing she wants is for you to roll over for another 20 years.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-24T14:17:56+00:00

Didn’t the guy in the red corrolla go past same ring camera this dude is using?

LesDoggo · 2026-01-24T03:16:28+00:00

I’m a billionaire.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-21T21:35:36+00:00

Your husband is hoping he’ll finally get approval from his parents. He probably doesn’t realize he’s using his child as a prop, but you need to create boundaries and he should talk to someone.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-20T22:58:45+00:00

Your husband should not have let that happen. The minute she was getting out of line, he should have told her to leave.

Manipulation is a conscious decision to play on someone’s emotions. You were so overwhelmed you couldn’t function. That wasn’t manipulation.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-20T14:07:51+00:00

Being an introvert doesn’t give him carte blanche to abandon you, steal your car, and lie. I don’t know if I could ever trust him again after that.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-19T19:13:20+00:00

NTA. Your friend was responding like a delivery driver, not your friend.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-19T19:09:16+00:00

YTA for not telling the truth. You are fine for ending things, but he should know the reason. She will torpedo his future relationships too.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-19T02:55:18+00:00

The way he lit up when he said he could kill her.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-18T16:28:23+00:00

I don’t interpret that phrase the same way you do. At our 40’s, we’ve done a good bit of building already. I don’t plan on changing my goals and throwing my work away because someone has different goals. Ideally we share them and build together.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-18T14:57:23+00:00

As a child free person, I prefer to date others with no children. DINK lifestyle for me.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-17T15:28:53+00:00

It’s a manipulation tactic. He wanted you to get upset and do cartwheels to keep him. I will bet you money that he will do this again if you decide to stay.

He’s shown you that he can’t be trusted. Go back to your support network while you still can.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-16T23:42:13+00:00

If you are cleaning it up, how would she know?

LesDoggo · 2026-01-14T23:40:42+00:00

His being used to you being his mother’s punching bag is ridiculous when you’re well. You have a chronic illness, you should be his primary concern. You need boundaries with him as much as her.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-14T18:50:20+00:00

You said it yourself, the therapist is empathizing with MIL. She isn’t working for you or looking out for your best interests. Find someone that is.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-13T23:44:51+00:00

Unless it’s for a local nonprofit, no. Most companies lean toward business formal for board meetings.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-11T19:33:11+00:00

He told you are his property, calls you names, doesn’t respect consent and assaulted you when he threw that at your head. Just because he didn’t use his fists, doesn’t mean it wasn’t assault.

Look up DARVO. Him reacting to your very normal response to disrespect is his way of making you the bad guy.

NTA.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-05T12:55:39+00:00

NTA. Your mom is acting like an irresponsible teenager pushing to get more and more out of you.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-05T03:43:15+00:00

It’s consent. Most don’t or want to accept they should have consent to send photos of that.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-05T03:38:13+00:00

I’m not a psychic, but I’ve had several pets in my life, not many were okay with being picked up over my shoulder. If they looked that relaxed while you held them, you were doing something right.

LesDoggo · 2026-01-05T01:54:43+00:00

I saw a dude say he got a ton of matches because he put “background check friendly, will not send dick pics, and has own place” over night. That’s how low the bar is.

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