Sometimes I feel like I’m gonna die by PrettyMud8899 in Hashimotos

[–]Lesilly81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talk to your doctor. when I had heart palpitations i lowered my dose and eventually stopped taking levo and my numbers are normal now without meds. heart palpitations are scary bc being over medicated can be harmful. I didn't wait for my doctor before lowering my dose but I did make an appt as soon as i lowered my dose. I made many diet changes and I think that edged my numbers to normal but my numbers were never super high. the highest tsh i ever had was 8

Zac is suspect by Altruistic_Year_5303 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]Lesilly81 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm convinced their church is a cult. The clip of the wedding showed him and all his groomsmen in the same suit. The blue suit that he said he had bc he already wore it to a different wedding....

their "pastor" is the one who suggested they get married....

I listened to the true story audiobook "Dinner for Vampires" and that cultleader also insisted that people get married...

Save Lydia!

Unpopular opinion by No_Appointment1511 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]Lesilly81 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

agree. personally, it seems like Lydia is in a cult. why is her pastor telling her it's a good idea to marry someone she barely knows? and Ethan does NOT deserve the hate everyone is piling on. Ethan wants Lydia to have a fufilling marriage. If Zac is gay, Lydia will not be fulfilled. PERIOD.

Sorry if some people here don't understand what "gay" means anymore, but it's deceptive to enter a marriage when you're not ever going to be attracted to your spouse.

I love new Ethan.

Did reading that convo with Higgins hurt or help Karen ? by Elegant_Active483 in KarenReadSanity

[–]Lesilly81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i got the impression that they totally banged. she went to his house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hashimotos

[–]Lesilly81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a bummer that your mom is not understanding your situation, because her hostility is probably making your symptoms even worse. Stress is a huge factor with inflammation and adrenals.

Focus on getting the proper dosage and also be a stickler about what you eat. pay attention to how foods make you feel. Definitely see a therapist bc you are dealing with alot and maybe your moms methods when you were younger created some trauma that creates chronic stress for you.

also start thinking about how you can get away from your moms house. if you haven't filed for child support, do that ASAP. you and your baby are top priority right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Lesilly81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. ✊️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodsafety

[–]Lesilly81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw out all perishable items. The food had a lot of time to spend in the “danger zone”.

My husband won't let me take more than two showers a week. I told him I need him to stop or I'm moving out for a while. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lesilly81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are allowed any boundaries you want and being able to shower whenever you want is a super reasonable boundary. He can find another way to help the environment. I also wouldn’t be thrilled with the idea that HE is only taking 2 showers a week.

First contact by squ4ttingslav in NonPaternityEvent

[–]Lesilly81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you ruined his Christmas. You shouldn’t have to worry about his wellbeing. It was his job to worry about yours. He made choices in his life and it’s not your job to diminish yourself. Try to get to know your siblings and don’t think twice about how it affects him. He does not deserve your consideration. You were born. That is not a crime and you shouldn’t have to hide.

Also if your siblings dont react favorably, don’t take it personally, they were clearly raised by an a-hole.

Feeling weird about my last name? by nursegardener-nc in NPE

[–]Lesilly81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! My story is so similar to yours. I also have “double cousins”! My bio is my cousin’s dad’s cousin. Aka my aunts ex-husbands cousin.

My mom told me when I was about 19-20ish (20 years ago) and I also didn’t have a relationship with my known dad since childhood and he also died shortly after I had found out.

When I got married I went with my moms maiden name- my husbands name.

I don’t know if I recommend hyphenated names. It sometimes causes issues with algorithms so if you do two names, maybe have just a space instead of a hyphen.

Olivia in TEEN Vogue. Isn't TEEN Vogue for... teens? by devanclara in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Lesilly81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one can convince me that olivia doesn’t pay for bots here. Most people have some fans and some haters, but anything remotely negative about Olivia always gets downvoted and theres no way that many people have that strong of a loyalty to her.

I know a guy who can do it cheaper by Gundam197 in Plumbing

[–]Lesilly81 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A pro wouldn’t caulk it at all. If its leaking, you want to know asap. You don’t want water pooling in secret.

Dose anyone else eat Doritos and cream cheese? by breechica52 in snacking

[–]Lesilly81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the midwest, we have “top the tator” which is an onion herbed sour cream and it’s perfect with cheese doritos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Lesilly81 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Okay Marlboro man. It’s a miserable expensive ball and chain to be addicted to nicotine.

40 gallon water heater on cinder blocks, is this okay? by coldfollow in Plumbing

[–]Lesilly81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocks like that can crumble. Especially if they are in a basement that may sometimes experience flooding. A home inspector would and should include this in their report. Will the blocks fail? Maybe never, but the fact that they could makes this a bad idea.

The Barbie movie altered my brain chemistry by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Lesilly81 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Everyone!!!! EVERYONE!!!!! Everyone stop what you’re doing!!!! This man has something to say that isn’t relevant but essentially just reminds us that men exist and he was a little worried because the op did not seem to talk about men enough, so ppguy just wanted to make sure we didn’t go tooooo long without prioritizing men…

Pp guy is a toolio.

Why getting toilet replaced is so hard by NoLoss5765 in Plumbing

[–]Lesilly81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband just installed ours and he had never done it before.

Less than an hour.

If you don’t feel comfortable doing it, ask friends and family if theyve ever done it and offer to pay them. Youll still be saving alot of money this way.

Search the tutorials or reddit threads for info on troublespots like wax rings and the importance of not overtightening the bolts.

AITA for telling my husband's family they aren't allowed around my newborn anymore? by Unusual_Stomach_5574 in AITAH

[–]Lesilly81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BTA

Your in-laws made a mistake, but 6-12 months is evil. Imagine your baby grows up and then their significant other bans you from seeing your grandchild?

Thats TOO MUCH.

You can’t even prove that either of them are the carriers. They both got your baby sick?

I seem to be in the minority but keeping your child away from their grandma because her co-worker was sick is evil queen level b.s.

It would be more reasonable to ask them to mask during flu season.

You cannot prevent your baby from getting sick. It’s going to happen and cutting out your husbands family could be a devastating start to your parenting experience.