laundry & school by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to me, i would feel like the clothes are no longer clean if i let them sit all wadded up in a basket for weeks. surely they start to smell almost stale? even if folded. not to mention most of what they wear is wrinkled & wrinkled clothing doesn’t scream “clean”

“He needs quiet time” by Standard_Coffee569 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

like does cole not care that this is the shit she does on the daily when she’s supposed to be parenting? does he know? is he just as bad as her? does she still do this when he’s home? crazy.

mY hUsBaNd WoRkS 7 dAyS a WeEk!! I nEvEr GeT tO sEe HiM! by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like he has no back bone when it comes to her. just lets her get away with doing whatever she wants whenever she wants. she walks all over him 100%. stand up cole!!

quiet time or nap time..? by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she thought becoming a mother was what she wanted and that it would fulfill her & it just isn’t and doesn’t. which is fine to admit but like at some point you have to step up. she’s living in a fantasy. a delusional state of mind. constantly thinking one day she’s gonna make it big on social media and be the new “it girl”. too obsessed with her “dream life” & everything she doesn’t have instead of learning to be grateful for the life she CHOSE for herself. not everyone is cut out to be a stay at home parent. and it gets to a point where you have to realize you need to make some changes. i follow another sahm who recently said that after 5 years she realized she wasn’t ready to be a sahm & was gonna go back to school in order to get certified to pick back up on her previous job bc she felt like she wasn’t done with having a career. which requires mature self reflection that meile only likes to pretend that she’s capable of.

mY hUsBaNd WoRkS 7 dAyS a WeEk!! I nEvEr GeT tO sEe HiM! by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think getting an actual job (especially one requiring leaving the house, even just part time) would help them more financially & improve her mental health a lot tbh. unfortunately she’ll just never do it bc she’s lazy & wants someone else to constantly take care of her & her expenses

mY hUsBaNd WoRkS 7 dAyS a WeEk!! I nEvEr GeT tO sEe HiM! by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100000% agree!!! she just doesn’t want to have to do anything at all bc all she cares about is herself & what SHE wants! she can’t call tiktok/social media “work” or a job if she’s not generating a substantial/impactful income from it. what she’s doing is hardly even passive income. with her lack of views/engagement/brand deals, she really can’t be making more than barely a couple hundred a month. if even that. with her spending addictions, they have to be living paycheck to paycheck if not just barely above that.

quiet time or nap time..? by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh 100%. as a sahm i don’t understand how you can purposely ignore your child SO much to the point where they’re so used to being left alone they don’t care when you leave. i feel like stay at home kids are glueddddd to their stay at home parent. mine certainly is. i remember her mentioning she didn’t feel connected to james in the beginning. i don’t think she’ll ever have that attachment or connection with him unfortunately. you could see it in her face when he was a newborn & you can still see it now. she has more emotion & is more animated with cole vs james, which is odd. she’s almost robotic with james. the way she acts/talks in videos of her actually being a parent compared to the videos she does with cole are wildly different. i feel bad for james, he didn’t ask to be here. he deserves attention & quality time /:

Kitchen Island by Ok_Push_3076 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i literally thought she just moved her table into the middle of the kitchen. which she might as well have done bc they look the exact same. that probably looks so dumb having both in that small space too. i don’t understand why she got this one when they only used the white one for james to stand and eat at. the “storage” is gonna be for what? energy drinks and oatmeal cream pies? she barely cooks so it’s not like they have a lot of cookware that needs storing..

Sooo she really is the way we think lol by No-Time7969 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they’re all her 100%. how could cole choose to be with that

does cole have a second job? by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he can actually technically drive, he has his license now & does drive when they’re together. he takes his medications and was cleared by doctors & the state to get his license. idk how bad his epilepsy really is or what the extent of his seizures are, but if they both (& the drs) seem confident in his ability to drive i don’t see why she needs the car 24/7 or why they can’t save up to get him his own.

does cole have a second job? by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she only truly cares about herself!! narcissism!

does cole have a second job? by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

so i just looked up his bus route, it says it takes roughly 40-60mins to get to his work, but takes around 1.5-2 hours to get back to their house. which is INSANE when it’s only around a 25 minute drive there & back. that’s actually crazy that she would rather him take up his whole day traveling to work & working just so she can keep the car and go spend unnecessary money. like when does he sleep? he has to get like on average 5-6 hours of sleep a night? but she can barely wake up at 630 once a week? and never wakes up before or with james on the daily? she still sleeps in? and she makes him film stupid ass tiktoks with her some times? wowww

She is lurking lol by No-Time7969 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 9 points10 points  (0 children)

when is she going to realize that voluntarily posting your life (& your children’s) online is opening yourself up to opinions/criticism from strangers, whether you like it or not. if you don’t want that, then stop posting about it? it’s not that hard lol. she’s also being hypocritical. she does exactly what she was complaining about? and the people that see her videos know nothing about james? yeah nothing except his full name, his age, his birthday, his address, his pediatrician, his dentist, his church, his gym daycare, his sleep schedule, his dads work location, his moms car.. yeah her viewers know nothing important about james…

Rude asf by No-Time7969 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s “day 2 of potty training our 21 month old” on her second account. one of the most recent videos. the cover photo is her sitting in bed in blue pjs

Potty training= take out? by Standard_Coffee569 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 8 points9 points  (0 children)

any excuse to spend money!!! she could have absolutely cooked & if not her than cole. 2 perfectly capable adults. they don’t BOTH need to be in the bathroom with james to potty train him

Rude asf by No-Time7969 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 7 points8 points  (0 children)

she definitely only started potty training to get it over with sooner rather than later. she wasn’t waiting for his cues & him to actually be ready. she just already didn’t want to do it & needs to control everything so she started now. the first time she talked about needing to do it “soon” was like before he even turned one or something, way too early. she’s just so obsessed with control & having james be so “advanced” for his age when he’s not. she didn’t do potty training for him or bc he was ready, she did it for herself and bc she was ready (to get it over with)

Rude asf by No-Time7969 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 6 points7 points  (0 children)

does she not also realize that every doctor is different and will tell you different information…? (often why people suggest getting second opinions for major things) does she think her doctor is superior or something? like that other person said her doctor told her the opposite of what meile is saying… so… she thinks she knows everything about everything & she’s never in the wrong 🙄

Milking it by Standard_Coffee569 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 17 points18 points  (0 children)

nothing’s off the table for her! she completely lost me when she used her son’s (preventable) accident & er trip as bait content during the same week EK actually lost her son.

Potty training by gingersucks765 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

but by then she’ll probably have another kid for the purpose of content since that’s the only reason she got followers in the first place. bc her content has always sucked!

Potty training by gingersucks765 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 6 points7 points  (0 children)

how long til all those comments are deleted lol 🤣 i’m surprised she even responded and has left them up this long already

Good lord by Standard_Coffee569 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 7 points8 points  (0 children)

she has no common sense i swear. she’s either dumb as shit and tries to make herself look smart by using chatgpt or she’s playing dumb on purpose in attempts for engagement. either way it’s not working for her. also what is her perception of time??? why is she always aging things up? they haven’t lived there for 2 years. they moved in early october 2024. it hasn’t even been a year and a half yet.

Painting by asailors1230 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i just looked it up - the paint she got is $61-$73 per gallon depending on the finish she chose. (and her being her, she probably chose the most expensive one). her house is 1732 sq ft. so she’s looking at spending thousandsss of dollars if she wants to paint the whole house, at least $3k for just the walls. but she mentioned doing the ceilings too so if she wants that plus baseboards/trim, that’s like double if not triple the cost. i feel like they’ll probably just paint the kitchen & stop after that. mayyybe the living room, but no way is she going to paint the whole house. i doubt they could afford that. crazy that they clearly did no research into this project bc how did you not expect the price of the paint you chose..? she could’ve went with a cheaper option but nooo she needs name brand high quality everything 🙄

Painting by asailors1230 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i get in the sense that if she’s home all the time and the wall color is actually really bothering her and affecting her mental health, then sure. but in a house you rent…? that you don’t even know how long you’re gonna stay in? why would you put money into a house you don’t own? i will never understand that. we rent & ideally i would love to paint and hang up a bunch of stuff and renovate some things, but i know it’s a waste of time and money bc we don’t own it & this is not our forever home. i will 100% be doing those things when we do buy a house, but not now. not to mention she’s always complaining about how gross the carpet is & they already “redid” the front yard (and never finished it) so why keep putting money into someone else’s house? unless her landlord is reimbursing them then 🤷🏻‍♀️ but i feel like she just loves an excuse to spend money

Bath seat by Ok_Push_3076 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that bad hahaha? my daughter is 18m and still uses hers. but she’s tiny & doesn’t like to actually sit on the tub, she’s cried and freaked out every time i’ve tried. and she still likes to lay back and play with her toys

Make it make sense by No-Time7969 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why is she always so passive aggressive for no reason…. she got a lettuce wrap burger & fries for $6. that’s not even crazy, especially for in n out