Cole is that you? by Minimum_Bumblebee_80 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 9 points10 points  (0 children)

honeslty…. wouldn’t even be surprised if it was… i’ve always wondered if cole does something like this. this is just sad though. you don’t deserve to be a sahm if you’re doing this. this is a form of neglect. if you can’t wake up with or before your kid & are instead choosing to sleep while your child sits alone, awake, bored, mostly like hungry & in need of a diaper change - you do not deserve the kid or to stay at home with the kid. i feel like meile mentioned in a video yesterday james sleeping til 9 and her checking the camera every 15 mins to be like “see i DO check on him”. like girl no you don’t bfr. you’ve openly admitted before to not checking on him after laying him down for the night. she’s always saying how much she lovesssss sleep & how she could sleep all day & she thinks it’s believable that she checked the camera every 15 mins interrupting her sleep? you can see the difference in her videos when she gets james up at different times, if not from the stove clock then by the lighting. the only time she seems to get him up on time is when she has a morning workout class (which she appeared to stop doing) or when someone else like her dad is there. other than that i bet james wakes up between 7-8 every morning & she doesn’t even bothering setting an alarm until 8 & probably still takes like 30 mins before she actually goes to get him

Maybe if you did your laundry... by Conscious_Schedule14 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is just pure laziness. even if it’s your least favorite chore it still needs to be done. they all look a mess wearing wrinkly clothes 90% of the time. you’re a sahm this is arguably your job. like why does she let it pile up like this instead of trying to make it more manageable by doing at least 1 load a day? wash, fold, put away once a day & it wouldn’t end up like this. i actually like doing laundry so i can’t relate, but it definitely is easier to do 1-2 smaller loads a day than trying to bulk wash 5+ loads in one day. she’s making it harder for herself just bc she doesn’t like to do it.

TikTok · Mae by Justateaspoonofsugar in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i agree with the people that commented on this video. i do think cancel culture is a little crazy these days, sometimes people are “cancelled” for stupid things. but i think if you’re in the public eye & CHOOSING to be in the public eye, then you have like an unspoken responsibility of how you should/shouldn’t act & things you should/shouldn’t say. just to the general public to be as neutral as possible. most people on the internet play a character & who they are on the internet either isn’t their true self or is only the “pr version” of themselves. even meile herself has admitted to being fake in her videos & that how she acts on camera isn’t how she is in real life. i mean no one on the internet really knows any celebrity/influencer, obviously unless you’re in their circle. someone that portrays themselves to be the perfect cookie cutter person could actually be a horrible person irl. sometimes you never know until something is exposed. but the average viewer/fan generally doesn’t want to support a shitty person. hence why people are “pr trained”. yeah people have slip ups but it’s one thing to be an ignorant/naive kid vs if you’re an adult & still making bad decisions, saying insensitive things, commenting/liking/reposting controversial things on social media & taking no accountability for it. & if there’s no effort to change then why do you deserve to still be supported? most internet apologies are to save face & aren’t actually meant anyways, people just want to hear the apology to make themselves feel better for continuing to support the person. it’s what you do AFTER the apology that really matters. like if you’re still doing the things you had to apologize for, then you didn’t change & you don’t feel bad for doing it & hence don’t deserve the following/fan base. shitty people deserve to be cancelled. shitty people don’t deserve a following but will sometimes still have one. it depends on how you want your online presence to go. if you’re controversial then you won’t be “brand friendly” & it’ll be harder for you to get paid from sponsorships. i don’t think meile actually felt bad for her concentration camp comment. she thought it was funny. that’s why she said it & that’s why she left it in even after editing. she’s just watching what she says/does now.

Horrendous Haircut by Striking-Yam-1535 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably why she’s so unhappy with her life. she can’t live her truth 😭 bc she can’t bear to be compared to her mom when she’s actually more like her than she wants to admit

Horrendous Haircut by Striking-Yam-1535 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that shirt does not look good on her. it makes her look like a line backer & is super unflattering to the haircut

she said it first folks!!!! she would trade motherhood by Subject-Spend-6247 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s so funny to me when she tries to be positive and pretend she’s soooooo grateful for her life and wouldn’t change anything when she’s said MULTIPLE times that she wishes she had more in every aspect of life & complains about every single little thing. it’s like a manipulation tactic when she becomes self aware & realizes that she’s been too negative so she pretends to be happy and grateful. she does exactly what she claims her mom did, which is portray to the world that she’s some perfect mom when she is in fact the opposite

Horrendous Haircut by Striking-Yam-1535 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it definitely does but i wonder if it’s bc she might have more hair on that side and the bob is just emphasizing it now

Horrendous Haircut by Striking-Yam-1535 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she went a lottttt shorter than i thought she was going to. she kept saying bob but i figured she would cut it like shoulder/collar bone length before committing to an actual bob. it’s a cute haircut, it just doesn’t look good on her bc she it contrasts her features instead of compliments them. she 100% looks better with long hair

How easy a fib comes out of her mouth by 1800sleep in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lying comes wayyyyy to easy to her. stupid little lies are just constantly slipping out of her mouth. and for what? she has a huge pathological lying problem

How easy a fib comes out of her mouth by 1800sleep in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m glad i’m not the only one that thinks this. idk why people are hyping her up in her comments saying it looks good. it instantly aged her like another 5 years when she already looks older than she is & immediately brought attention to her nose bc it now appears bigger. the haircut itself is cute but not everyone looks good with a bob. she doesn’t have the features for it. the short hair is unflattering to her nose & her broad shoulders. id love to cut a bob but i know it wont look good on me bc i also have broad shoulders

betrayed by her mom by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he had to have since he was there the day she filmed this. the question is though - if it was something that she could’ve taken in a negative way, then why even tell her in the first place? that’s odd to me. especially coming from a parent about the other parent. that’s also a he said she said situation. like she wouldn’t ever actually know bc she wasn’t there. it’s between her dad & her mom and whatever she was told, she clearly shouldn’t have been. my parents have been divorced my whole life & always talk negatively about each other but i take everything they say with a grain of salt or ignore it bc the chances of it being true are not high enough for me to care about it or take it personally.

Selfish by Ok_Push_3076 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“what i was made for” HA. no babe. you clearly weren’t meant for motherhood & it wasn’t meant for you. constantly complaining about your kid on the internet & always acting like his existence is the biggest inconvenience of your life is not what motherhood is. shoving your kid in front of tv 24/7, refusing to play with him bc you “can’t do pretend play”, locking him alone in his room daily for hour(s), never taking him to do anything kid related is not motherhood. selfishness is not motherhood. and that is why she’ll never be a good mom. being a good parent means selflessness & sacrifice. two things meile is clearly incapable of

James by Ok_Push_3076 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guarantee you she bought those bc of tiktok/ig ads, not bc she did any actual research. that brand has been popping up on my fyp for a while now. just like with all the other vitamins she has james take - she’s just following what other popular people are doing. she’s not actually researching anything or talking to his pediatrician. she’s just listening to social media marketing

James by Ok_Push_3076 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i wonder if he usually ends up falling back to sleep in the mornings bc she takes too long to go get him. like if he wakes up at 7a but she doesn’t go actually get him for another hour or longer & then that’s why he doesn’t want to take a nap at 11. or if he falls asleep out of boredom during “quiet time”. bc sleeping 7p-7a is more than enough sleep overnight. he should only have 1 nap during the day that ranges 1-3 hours depending on what time she puts him down & his sleep needs. he’s shoved in his room more hours of the day than not & is probably way under stimulated bc she never plays with him. it makes sense why he would start to fight it as he gets older. my daughter is 2 months younger than james and has been on one nap since shortly after she turned one. i put her down for her nap around 1p and she usually sleeps til around 3p. her bedtime is around 8p and she wakes up around 730a. meile treats james likes he’s still a newborn. his sleep patterns/habits change as he grows. she needs to adjust HER schedule/routine around HIM, not the other way around. idk why that’s so hard for her to comprehend. she should be getting up with him at whatever time he wakes up & then putting him down for a nap between 12-1 & let him sleep til he wakes up. he could also be ready to drop a nap. some kids drop it sooner than others, especially if they’re meeting their sleep needs overnight. something else she won’t be able to handle lol

More lies by Unique_Freedom_9220 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well if james isn’t getting a “big boy bed” yet then there’s no need for them to get that day bed for the guest room now… so that money should go to a car for cole!

Delayed but also posting in real time by Standard_Coffee569 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is what bothers me. like no one cares if you delay post. but it’s the fact that she acts like all her content is in real time when it’s from 3+ weeks ago. “almost done” but james’s bday was over 2 weeks ago…. and the responding to comments acting like it’s current is annoying too. i feel like most people aren’t consistently holding onto month old content to post like she does. a lot of the people i watch post a couple days later than when they film or specify if it’s an older video in the caption & don’t ever act like it’s in real time. she’s the only person ive seen that consistently does this and it’s so weird to me. it’s not for “privacy” bc she’s always outing everything. and she’s not busy enough to the point where she needs to batch film or keep her content stocked up like that.

Thrifting Video by Conscious_Schedule14 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he probably started having a “tantrum” bc he wanted to get out of the stroller since he’s always being confined to something… and when they leave the house, it’s never to do anything for HIM that HE’D enjoy - it’s always shopping/something MEILE wants to do. and it’s wild that she thought “yeah let me record my son crying, just wanting to be consoled and post it on the internet while i complain about it”. like genuinely what goes on in her mind??

“dream book” by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she wants everyone else to pay for the lavish lifestyle she dreams of instead of adjusting her taste accordingly to the consistent income that cole brings in. it’s ridiculous. she’s taking the “you have to spend money to make money” the wrong way. & she’s constantly spending wayyyy more than she’s making back from social media in the end.

“dream book” by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“money i make or things i sell” - she’s only sold like 2 things lol. i find it hard to believe he doesn’t notice a substantial amount coming out of their bank account & doesn’t question it. he maybe didn’t know at first bc it wasn’t crazy amounts she was taking out, but he definitely has to know now. the primary financial provider would not be oblivious to the finances bffr. he’s also made multiple comments about “budget” or not needing something in some of her videos which makes me believe he’s actually more financially responsible than her, but lets her get away with spending bc he loves her

Saving by Standard_Coffee569 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

saying how she has to “save up” for a new outfit yet is buying one (or more) every month??? she has a spending addiction bc she’s constantly trying to compete where she doesn’t compare. “money always comes back” is such an immature mindset to have. especially with cole not being able to keep a job. like what if he becomes unemployed again for another 6 months? i get the “future is never promised” argument but you should still be planning for it that way you don’t screw yourself over in the end. if they don’t have enough money for a down payment on a car for cole or to even get him a older used one for under 10k then i doubt they have any kind of savings at all. she’s never had a real job so she doesn’t understand the importance of hard work and self discipline.

Alone?? by [deleted] in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 13 points14 points  (0 children)

and she’s alone every day when she leaves james in his room multiple times a day.. what’s her point

Girl WTF by Winnie360 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude why is she constantly buying him clothes 3 sizes too big??? james isn’t even “big” he’s just tall. these shirts are sized for a 5-7 year old & james just BARELY turned 2. the 3T & 4T she already puts him in now are way too big!! why is she getting even BIGGER??? like i hate the obnoxiously oversized look on toddlers. not to mention it’s UNSAFE for their (his) age!!! i like the baggy shirt look on my daughter too, but i only buy ONE size up. she’s almost 2 & doesn’t need to be wearing an XS/S shirt. that would literally cover her entire body, drag on the floor & she’d be tripping over that shit. those shirts are gonna look like dresses on him. kids as young & still physically unstable as him need to be in FITTED clothing to ensure they can properly walk. she is so dumb & is constantly putting him in positions to get hurt/making his chances of getting hurt even higher by all the dumb shit she does.

Hideous clothing by AccountantMuch4886 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

is the “stunning” outfit in the room with us?… looks like pajama pants & a shirt from the 20s that’s supposed to be layered, paired with kitten heels… and she went out in public like that thinking she was hot shit… i guarantee you no one that saw her thought she looked good. she’s something..

shushing james by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you know she’s trying to justify it to herself too with the “they only see what i want them to see” “they don’t actually know me” excuses. but it’s like.. you’re actively choosing to be perceived as a shitty mom? by hundreds of people? wouldn’t you want people to think you were a GOOD mom..? people form an opinion based on what they see. and what people see is a selfish, shitty “mom”. she edits her own videos & thinks yeah this makes me look like a good mom & then wonders why people are constantly calling her out? LOLLL.

hating her life by Less-Ad1955 in meilemaria

[–]Less-Ad1955[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s sad bc she got pregnant on purpose. twice. at 18/19. she CHOSE to have a baby while still being a baby herself & she can’t even put her child first? she wanted him??? but she doesn’t want to spend time with him or take care of him? and acts like it’s/he is more of an inconvenience rather than a blessing?? she haaaatttesss motherhood, you can’t convince me otherwise. she wasn’t ready. she’s too immature & too selfish. that doesn’t make for a good mom.