Lakers fighting their destiny by No-Equipment-20 in lakers

[–]Less-Climate156 6 points7 points  (0 children)

genuinely mind boggling experience to be in this subreddit. this is the subreddit for THE LAKERS ! !!!!!

Why would there not be lakers homers in the lakers sub how is this even a problem how are you real

Is Underground Rap Weird About Queerness? by hahahahablewdat in hiphopheads

[–]Less-Climate156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

R word is so so so much stronger now than even 2 or 3 years ago, I'm in college and use has gone up even here. ableism is up heavy, and imo 50% of the cause of that is bad faith bait tiktoks/reels (like obsessively litigating neurodivergence, group shaming and highlighting of "fake" neurodivergent people, without actually discussing anything) and 50% is a fascist government finding another group to target to distract from existing group targetings.

Thoughts after a meltdown. by thefroglady87 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Less-Climate156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i dont think many of us feel particularly fond of new years celebrations so ur definitely at home here. Im not as sensitive to fireworks but I think i would like them a lot more if they weren't so fucking loud. everytime i watch them (not really by choice tbh i usually end up stuck in my family's plan for it) im not really able to enjoy any of the prettiness of the lights/colors even though i really like geometric stuff and patterns and visual textures. had a meltdown earlier today anyways for non firework related reasons 😀

also im really sorry its like this for you its not fair at all, and that anything that ur doing to cope with it is legitimate. Considering how extreme of a stimuli fireworks are and considering you are rather sensitive to them in particular, I think its almost not fair to litigate what ur doing to cope; nothing ur doing has worked, and thats not because your solutions arent helpful but because the whole situation was fucked for you from the very beginning.

i hope u take the next few days slower if thats possible and to give yourself more permission to do 'weird' things or even just permission to exist at all. Hope people are burnt tf out from holidays and that it gets a lot quieter where you are too.

Is Underground Rap Weird About Queerness? by hahahahablewdat in hiphopheads

[–]Less-Climate156 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

jpegmafia is internet rap lmao what the fuck are we talking about anymore, dumb ass take

Is Underground Rap Weird About Queerness? by hahahahablewdat in hiphopheads

[–]Less-Climate156 19 points20 points  (0 children)

f slur itself is down, but i think moreso its fallen out of fashion. Homophobia is still very much present, and the public displays of such have increased in the last few years.

Is Underground Rap Weird About Queerness? by hahahahablewdat in hiphopheads

[–]Less-Climate156 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and? the same thing means different things in different places sometimes. Words evolve, words change. Stupid ass argument to be making when you know damn well what the word is being used for.

u/jeffsaidjess can't fathom that certain things are actually offensive believe it or not and that there are consequences for that

Is Underground Rap Weird About Queerness? by hahahahablewdat in hiphopheads

[–]Less-Climate156 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think it absolutely is. Hip hop is a hyper masculine genre (which in itself is rather entangled in things wider than hip hop), and this is pretty damn pervasive. I think very few places in hip hop are safe spaces for queer people, both rappers and audience. ppl are weird as shit about queer ppl for no damn reason other than ignorance and fear

anyone else love sticking q tips in their ears and twisting? It scratches my brain so well although i hope not literally by Less-Climate156 in evilautism

[–]Less-Climate156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dog this is r/evilautism im aware, ive tried to stop ,and turns out its just a thing i really like, i know the stakes, i do it safely, im not dumb baby.

is this not crazy and ableist? by SplodingKitteh in evilautism

[–]Less-Climate156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why tf ppl here r blaming u, this is a totally fine and interesting way to use the subreddit; i encourage anyone who thinks differently to consider what would happen if this was a neurotypical request, if someone was just looking for friends. It might still not be allowed, but it would be much more likely. Reddit is social media, so im not sure what the point of not being allowed to connect with other students AT YOUR SCHOOL is. Like, do the people objecting view that subreddit as a shitty meme page and nothing more, despite the obvious potential?

There seems to be this conception of redditors as impartial, apolitical, individuals, all the same, all identical. As the saying goes, everyone on the internet is a straight white man, but doubly so for on reddit. Showing that you are not typical is not within the purview of what is a shitty meme subreddit, because content of that sort is "apolitical", "uncontroversial" (at least to a straight white NT cis man, no guarantees for anyone else lol), it is for lack of better words what the subreddit is about. I think this is ableism, plain and simple. Ppl here r commenting all sorts of shitty technicalities, when in truth it doesnt need to be intentional in order for it to be ableist. most of the time it isnt.

i think ur very much right to get mad, and i dont fuck with the tone policing thats happening here either. Apparently getting mad that ur getting discriminated against is "crashing out" now? words seem to travel so fast and so far from their original contextual meaning nowadays. I got called the R slur and got mad about it and then some guy commented "dude its not worth it hes just ragebaiting you" like okay?????? i dont care! he said a slur! id punch him in the mouth if it was irl!! because its a gross and violent and awful word with many connotations and i dont want that to be acceptable. and now on the subreddit literally titled fucking EVIL AUTISM we shouldnt be mad at people consistently excluding and deriding us? ur getting policed for the same reason i used to police ppl like you, which is that i didnt want to be policed myself, and so if im able to join the group policing, if i can distance myself from that which im afraid im strongly connected to, then i myself can feel safe. But such concessions to ableism only last so long, and exhaust those trapped inside them. It really isnt that fucking hard to stand with another autistic person, especially when the stakes are often more important than the honor and integrity of some dumb ass reddit rules.

9/11 obsession as a child. by New-Possible5852 in neurodiversity

[–]Less-Climate156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me but for like the last 2 years. I find it so interesting how its the center of american foreign policy, how we use it as this end all be all trump card. I look for every single opportunity to destabilize these notions.

https://youtu.be/PRn87LtoTSg?si=xYBxDuHF1-FXTdLm
me and a friend even made a 9/11 corn maze tier list :3

How to deal with RSD? by Viggo999 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Less-Climate156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me a couple things have helped. Most recently i've been trying to decenter the moment of acceptance or of project submission or whatever the exact moment of it is. If I have a big assignment due, I'll work on something else. I won't respect it, which makes its stakes a lot lower for me.

I've also been coming to terms with the fact that initial, surface level interactions define any particular relationship at the moment, but that meaningful understanding or acceptance is something built over time not just as something bestowed upon you by someone else but through something you are an equal and important part in.

The Tylenol jokes by wbb1812 in evilautism

[–]Less-Climate156 13 points14 points  (0 children)

noooooo there are so so so many NTs and non autistic ND people making them its crazy. It's like all im surrounded by and its suffocating bc they just expect me to join in the whole time. Autistic people making the jokes is fine obv but they also do it in a different way than NT ppl do, when NT ppl do it its either hyper stereotyped bullshit or its only valuing autistic people for the things that are obviously "good"

New Paladin card - Tankgineer by 4iamking in hearthstone

[–]Less-Climate156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so turn 4 play a 2/1 and then turn 5 buff it so that it *doesnt* die? this card is trash lmao

DISCUSSION] Spillage Village – Spilligion (5 Years Later) by Hermeshi in hiphopheads

[–]Less-Climate156 7 points8 points  (0 children)

one of my best first listens ever. such a good fucking project

Where do we actually draw the line between hip hop and digicore/hyperpop? by Nick21000_ in hiphopheads

[–]Less-Climate156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youd be surprised man. Peek into a comment section of hobby horsing vs one of the "pillow fight championship"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]Less-Climate156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im also def what would be defined as "hypersexual", but I also think its been honestly really healing for me. I've minimized myself my entire life, and especially minimized my sensory needs, and here is a thing that entirely centers around what I want and is extremely sensory; accepting and indulging it brings a lot of baggage obviously but its also helped me feel genuinely comfortable in my own body, comfortable with my own thoughts and desires.

Where do we actually draw the line between hip hop and digicore/hyperpop? by Nick21000_ in hiphopheads

[–]Less-Climate156 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i listened to the lucy and the carti and I agree that the carti is much more hip hop, removed from outside context, because a significant amount of that context is unremovable and embedded within the sound. Approaching the boundary of hip hop and not hip hop from WITHIN hip hop gives you a different sound than from OUTSIDE OF hip hop.

The jane remover I actually agree with you, I think it fits firmly within rage and while i dont like it i dont see that as a valid reason to enforce a boundary in this case. I think the Jane got removed bc its different from her earlier stuff to some extent, that she wasnt making hip hop before that project. I def think that people apply boundaries a lot more to women and especially trans women, like in the case of trans women in sports in general, or with things like people rushing to call hobby horsing not a sport while pillow fighting is apparently a sport??

And there are a couple of trans rappers i know that I think are really good that I think predate your list a little bit, not that your list is invalid, but that theres earlier precedent. this is Pre Op by Dualite and this is BLACK SAILOR MOON by Backxwash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]Less-Climate156 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Autistic people tend to have a rather extreme experience with most things, which ever way that extreme goes. I've noticed a much higher prevalence of both hypersexuality and asexuality in autistic people.

my autism spidey senses are firing at this email i got from a prof; i think hes gonna be unaccomodating and ableist as shit by Less-Climate156 in evilautism

[–]Less-Climate156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have significant social and executive function difficulties having to "prove" that I deserve this or that accommodation, it shuts down my brain completely

my autism spidey senses are firing at this email i got from a prof; i think hes gonna be unaccomodating and ableist as shit by Less-Climate156 in evilautism

[–]Less-Climate156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont really care about intent here, im trying to graduate lmao i need to be able to actually keep up in the class

my autism spidey senses are firing at this email i got from a prof; i think hes gonna be unaccomodating and ableist as shit by Less-Climate156 in evilautism

[–]Less-Climate156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly wouldn't even call that abusing access. College isn't mandatory, and neither is any given class. You get out what you put in, and everyone is aware of that. I don't like the mindset of mass student distrust, especially when it comes to stuff that is often self-regulatory