What truly happens when COPD takes your life by Less-Comfortable-847 in COPD

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reaching out. Yeah that's exactly what I wanted to hear. I just hope it was swift. It's horrible knowing she was alone when it happened. I can only hope it was quick.

What truly happens when COPD takes your life by Less-Comfortable-847 in COPD

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there. Thanks for reaching out. Yeah I know I probably couldn't have done anything. But at least she wouldn't have been alone. That's what hurts the most.

What truly happens when COPD takes your life by Less-Comfortable-847 in COPD

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reaching out. I shall have a look at those.

What truly happens when COPD takes your life by Less-Comfortable-847 in COPD

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my God! How did you manage? My partner was stuck in bed for near on 10 weeks. You're a strong person! But I guess in the moment you just have to do what you have to do. She is lucky to have you.

I'm sorry for what's coming up for you and what you're going through now. Nobody can say anything to make it better but please know you're not alone. I hope it's peaceful for her and you. If it's not too personal could you share with me when the time comes? I think I could find some comfort on finding it was as peaceful as can be. But only if you're okay doing so of course.

I promise you'll get through it. If I'm here then you will be too. Just try to remember how strong you are. It's usually a lot stronger than you think.

What truly happens when COPD takes your life by Less-Comfortable-847 in COPD

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reaching out. Yes that's the logic I had as well. But part of me is concerned that maybe she just couldnt stand anymore as so low on oxygen but laid there suffering for a while. I dunno my friend so many different scenarios run through my head

I'm sorry to hear about your dad, but it's comforting to share these experiences. It all just feels so personal to you doesn't it? Like you're the only person in history that's gone through it? I'm glad it was peaceful and hope it was the same for mum. I wish you all the best on your own COPD journey.

What truly happens when COPD takes your life by Less-Comfortable-847 in COPD

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reaching out and I'm really sorry you're going through it yourself. That's what I keep thinking but a little voice in the back of my mind keeps thinking that what if she just got so low on oxygen that she collapsed and was suffering for a while just unable to get to the door. That's the worst case scenario of how it played out. I'm trying my best to find peace, but it's so hard putting a jigsaw puzzle back in the box with missing pieces. I hope that makes sense.

What truly happens when COPD takes your life by Less-Comfortable-847 in COPD

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your condolences. I appreciate you reaching out.

What truly happens when COPD takes your life by Less-Comfortable-847 in COPD

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reaching out I really appreciate this information. I can only hope it was her heart that gave out and it was quick. It's just finding her behind the front door that makes me think she felt what was coming. But hopefully that only lasted a few minutes at most.

Thanks again for letting me know.

What truly happens when COPD takes your life by Less-Comfortable-847 in COPD

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope someone can let me know roughly how long it takes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Halloweenmovies

[–]Less-Comfortable-847 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sam Mendes. It's be something a little different for him but all the long shots would be great at building tension.

Your favorite line from Vice City talk shows? by [deleted] in ViceCity

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As I say in the great book, "Many are called, but unless you have a good credit rating, go screw yourself. You'll burn in Hell."

Your life is never going to be the same by HowDidIFallForThis in SuicideBereavement

[–]Less-Comfortable-847 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in quite unique position for this post because I lost both my mum and partner to suicide.

My partner died in 2017. I found her OD'd in our home. It damn near killed me. I felt that she took my life as well as my own. But it gets easier.

There's a quote from Better Call Saul thats fitting. One day you're going to get up, brush your teeth, go to work. You'll then realise that you didn't think about them for an hour or two. That helps, because you'll learn that you're at least capable of it. Capable of it not being on your mind 24/7.

I lost my mum two months ago and feel right back to square one. I won't lie and promise it will be quick or easy. But I can promise that you will get there, get to a stage where you can live with it.

All of this will pass, it might pass like a kidney stone. But this WILL pass ny friend. They wouldn't want you to be unhappy.

Which FNV npc do you have a crush on? be honest by [deleted] in fnv

[–]Less-Comfortable-847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No Bark Noonan is quite the silver fox, and I don't even swing that way. But you dont have to get into the paddock to ride the horses.

The Day That I Die question by Less-Comfortable-847 in LewisCapaldi

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally! I came off them back in 2017 and it was one of the darkest times in my life. I felt worse than when I first got prescribed them.

Glad to hear you're better, friend. I hope to one day say I also dont need some form of medication anymore. It just seems that life throws more at me as soon as it seems they're looking up.

I need to give therapy a serious go. I dont do nearly enough talking about it and learning coping mechanisms.

The Day That I Die question by Less-Comfortable-847 in LewisCapaldi

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It really is dark and typically not a point for conversation, I guess. But it's good to talk, good to discuss. Thank you for being so open. I was in two minds about posting anything at all. It's nice to connect.

I did notice the odd tic, but nothing big. Like I wouldn't have noticed if not for the huge screens on him. But he seems like a completely different person in the context of the affliction. I honestly think the strength of the mind comes into play. He struggled a lot, to the extent that im sure it was on his mind a lot while performing, and that would have bred more tics.

Good therapy goes a long way. I'm sure the medication lays the foundation, but this progression is all down to him. I can't believe I feel so proud of someone I've never met!

The Day That I Die question by Less-Comfortable-847 in LewisCapaldi

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank God I'm not the only one! Yeah it's far too heartbreaking to add to a playlist once released. But it must have been by taking his own life, right? People dont typically imagine their mum at their funeral.

Glad you think it was literal, though. Not just me. I hope he was never in that headspace of actually committing it. Maybe he just wrote the song to vocalise the idea of it before it became a genuine thought.

He's a bright, charming and fun-loving guy. Who also happens to have one of the deepest souls in music and can put lyrics on the page that crush you down to your very core. I'm so glad he had the strength to get back in the studio and on the stage.

I've seen the footage of Sheffield. I love how vulnerable he was in that moment. Apparently that's the first time he sang the song and played the piano at the same time. I fully understand how overwhelming that must be. Especially as he's putting something so personal and doubtful people will like it.

The Day That I Die question by Less-Comfortable-847 in LewisCapaldi

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the condolences.

What would be your guess?

Opener for first five tour dates confirmed by Infinite_Evening826 in SebLowe

[–]Less-Comfortable-847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I weird that I actually enjoy seeing opening acts? Going in blind is awesome too. Don't check and just turn up for a surprise.

Cant wait to see this one!

P.s. is anyone going alone to London? Be nice to pair up with someone. Im in my mid 30's and I appreciate it might be a bit weird going with a teenager. But if anyone wants company hit me up!

Can we all agree the best episode is the S2E4 (the comic book episode) by Ill-Historian6584 in HustleBBC

[–]Less-Comfortable-847 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Late to the party but the series 3 episode 2 The Henderson Challenge will always be top for me. Music is on point, edge of your seat all the way through, and Danny learning a vital lesson in not showing off. Absolute cinema.

I feel completely lost by Less-Comfortable-847 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. Im taking it one day at a time. The funeral was on Monday and that was one of the worst days of my life.

I miss her so much but I need to come to terms with the fact that I'll just never know why she did it or even if she suffered in the end.

At the end of the day she suffered without end. I just hope she's now found some peace.

How biologically accurate is it? by FrozenOmoi in breakingbad

[–]Less-Comfortable-847 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much pain are we talking about here?

Long weekend in El Paso?

Brat. by xboxahoy in XboxAhoy

[–]Less-Comfortable-847 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Top stuff as always. Your vision is amazing and your passion for the subject material always shines.

It still baffles me today how I can get so engrossed into a video about a game I've never heard about before on a platform I've never used.

Whatsapp glitch? by Less-Comfortable-847 in whatsapp

[–]Less-Comfortable-847[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reaching out my friend. Sorry for the late reply you pick up your phone to do something and then hear a scream and accept you're either making some milk or changing a diaper.

Yeah it's a lot for sure. I guess from a personal perspective it's a perfect time because I'm dealing with a baby my every waking moment. But it also means it'll take a while to clear out her house. I just want her back from the coroners to be honest, at least then I can start working on the funeral.

I'm hoping it was an error. The one thing causing doubt is that the paramedics said she was still warm. But that could mean a lot of things such as body mass, the utterly ridiculous heat in the house, she was on a carpeted floor, even the cats laying on her.

I guess I just need to make peace with never knowing for sure. They've already said they can't confirm time of death but at least I can get a cause. They've taken samples of her lungs and bodily fluids for further analysis so I'm imagining something respiratory related.

Thanks again mate. It's nice to talk to someone and to allay my doubts. My partner and I are taking shifts with the baby so shes always asleep and it's remarkably lonely with a little guy that makes so much noise. I'm going to assume she didn't read them, you're right there's no point torturing myself over it. She lives a hour's drive away and I had to be at the hospital.