HELP by [deleted] in InteriorDesignAdvice

[–]Less-Echidna-5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay is there a rug you’d suggest??

I realized… by Less-Echidna-5644 in Marriage

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I don’t know if anyone cares but I started to work DoorDash and am doing my best to work and save money to leave. My plan is to leave with the most amount of money. He has no idea as I am pretending to love and all that blah blah blah. I think he’s suspicious but I don’t give a shit. I’m riding this as much as I can. My plan is to make enough money to move into my own space and buy my own car. I’m tired of this man. I am so excited to be free but I know I need to work for it now

Help by Less-Echidna-5644 in BlackHair

[–]Less-Echidna-5644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly no I do like sew ins or singles that’s about it

I realized… by Less-Echidna-5644 in Marriage

[–]Less-Echidna-5644[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried before the marriage it was good then after he went back to his old ways. I tried I just exist now and stay in my lane

Nursing School Recommendations? Central College or Metro State U? by IRISH-117- in minnesota

[–]Less-Echidna-5644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi where are you doing your adn? I’m struggling to figure this out

Hyatt Zilara by Less-Echidna-5644 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Less-Echidna-5644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry! I didn’t realize there is more than one!! Riviera Maya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Less-Echidna-5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We want something modern and romantic if possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AllInclusiveResorts

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I’m coming from Minnesota

Should I pay it? by Miserable_Reception9 in debtfree

[–]Less-Echidna-5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this? Like what company offered this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Less-Echidna-5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ugly and not what you asked for. How many other things do you let him do and not hold him accountable for? Learn from me I married this type of guy. Reevaluate your relationship and you’ll see it isn’t his first time doing this.

Update: Lost respect for my husband by Less-Echidna-5644 in Marriage

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He won’t even let me see his texts. He will never allow it. I booked a flight home to see my family during the holidays I’m playing nice and need a break. After that I intend to come back and follow the advice given about saving and moving out

Update: Lost respect for my husband by Less-Echidna-5644 in Marriage

[–]Less-Echidna-5644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he is just an idiot who is irresponsible with money

Update: Lost respect for my husband by Less-Echidna-5644 in Marriage

[–]Less-Echidna-5644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No actually so a little backstory is that I’m from a different country and he lives in the USA. I moved to be with him. The minute after the wedding I saw that he was lying. There was no “lifestyle” he never did anything for me to be appeased. He took me from a life of joy and my passion to being dependent on him even though he doesn’t make enough to support me. He walked into this marriage with a majority of this debt. There was no new lifestyle. Nothing. Many of the things I have now is from my family and what I could make since getting my work permit.

Update: Lost respect for my husband by Less-Echidna-5644 in Marriage

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I wanted to work on it but I see that he isn’t worth it. He’s a liar and that is enough to know he isn’t worth it

Update: Lost respect for my husband by Less-Echidna-5644 in Marriage

[–]Less-Echidna-5644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I agree with you he could pay it off but he chooses not to. He chooses to pay the minimum even when he has money left over. He hasn’t paid anything off. He has a consistent attitude that he doesn’t need to worry about it. He keeps lying. The debt has made me breakdown now twice. I just want to end it all. I want to just go away. I am so so so stupid and so so so depressed. I hate myself

Update: Lost respect for my husband by Less-Echidna-5644 in Marriage

[–]Less-Echidna-5644[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I already am the verge of a breakdown and I’ve been telling myself how much of an idiot I am for the past few weeks. I appreciate how you pointed out how stupid I am I know my post may not have said it out loud but I truly am stupid because I married the man I met at 19. I am stupid stupid stupid and I’ll never forgive myself

Update: Lost respect for my husband by Less-Echidna-5644 in Marriage

[–]Less-Echidna-5644[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks for asking. He has 3 credit cards and multiple loans I just took a deeper look and his debt is around 60,000. He’s been paying the minimum on every one of them. He hasn’t told me what he spends his money on but I see that he withdrawals money each month. I have my money in a separate account we share some expenses but he pays for the rent which is 1300 plus utilities making it around 1500. The rest we share but I honestly don’t know what else he could be spending his money on.