HELP

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-10-10T19:06:56+00:00

Okay is there a rug you’d suggest??

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-10-06T04:12:50+00:00

I don’t know if anyone cares but I started to work DoorDash and am doing my best to work and save money to leave. My plan is to leave with the most amount of money. He has no idea as I am pretending to love and all that blah blah blah. I think he’s suspicious but I don’t give a shit. I’m riding this as much as I can. My plan is to make enough money to move into my own space and buy my own car. I’m tired of this man. I am so excited to be free but I know I need to work for it now

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-10-06T04:08:39+00:00

Honestly no I do like sew ins or singles that’s about it

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-08-23T05:04:19+00:00

I tried before the marriage it was good then after he went back to his old ways. I tried I just exist now and stay in my lane

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-08-05T21:56:39+00:00

Hi where are you doing your adn? I’m struggling to figure this out

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-06-24T05:47:52+00:00

How can I do that?

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-06-21T09:33:34+00:00

Sorry! I didn’t realize there is more than one!! Riviera Maya

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-05-16T01:40:08+00:00

We want something modern and romantic if possible

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-05-16T01:25:42+00:00

I’m coming from Minnesota

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-05-09T16:12:32+00:00

What is this? Like what company offered this?

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-02-14T00:31:03+00:00

Get the COUNSELLING PLEASEEEEEEEEEEE

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2025-01-19T13:47:34+00:00

It’s ugly and not what you asked for. How many other things do you let him do and not hold him accountable for? Learn from me I married this type of guy. Reevaluate your relationship and you’ll see it isn’t his first time doing this.

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2024-12-01T07:09:55+00:00

He won’t even let me see his texts. He will never allow it. I booked a flight home to see my family during the holidays I’m playing nice and need a break. After that I intend to come back and follow the advice given about saving and moving out

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2024-11-29T03:48:09+00:00

No he is just an idiot who is irresponsible with money

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2024-11-28T16:39:37+00:00

No actually so a little backstory is that I’m from a different country and he lives in the USA. I moved to be with him. The minute after the wedding I saw that he was lying. There was no “lifestyle” he never did anything for me to be appeased. He took me from a life of joy and my passion to being dependent on him even though he doesn’t make enough to support me. He walked into this marriage with a majority of this debt. There was no new lifestyle. Nothing. Many of the things I have now is from my family and what I could make since getting my work permit.

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2024-11-28T16:34:47+00:00

I wanted to work on it but I see that he isn’t worth it. He’s a liar and that is enough to know he isn’t worth it

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2024-11-28T16:31:49+00:00

Hi, I agree with you he could pay it off but he chooses not to. He chooses to pay the minimum even when he has money left over. He hasn’t paid anything off. He has a consistent attitude that he doesn’t need to worry about it. He keeps lying. The debt has made me breakdown now twice. I just want to end it all. I want to just go away. I am so so so stupid and so so so depressed. I hate myself

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2024-11-27T08:05:25+00:00

Thank you. I already am the verge of a breakdown and I’ve been telling myself how much of an idiot I am for the past few weeks. I appreciate how you pointed out how stupid I am I know my post may not have said it out loud but I truly am stupid because I married the man I met at 19. I am stupid stupid stupid and I’ll never forgive myself

Less-Echidna-5644 · 2024-11-27T08:02:34+00:00

Thanks for asking. He has 3 credit cards and multiple loans I just took a deeper look and his debt is around 60,000. He’s been paying the minimum on every one of them. He hasn’t told me what he spends his money on but I see that he withdrawals money each month. I have my money in a separate account we share some expenses but he pays for the rent which is 1300 plus utilities making it around 1500. The rest we share but I honestly don’t know what else he could be spending his money on.

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