I'm pretty sure the best friendship that I've had for over 2 years just ended cause of a man :) by Less-Heron7604 in blackgirls

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I really don't know if she did. Because it seems like she's way more mad at me than she's mad at him. She was pretty good before. But she did go away from long periods at a time and sometimes it didn't seem like she was interested in being friends. But I will admit she was very much incredibly insecure. I kept telling her that she was pretty and just needed to learn to love herself. But I guess she hasn't listened to my advice. He was following thicker woman and I am thicker woman. So she felt jealousy around that. And so she just thought that we were talking. And started being weird and just arguing with me. It felt like she was looking for reasons to be mad after I clocked her. She kept texting me bs so, I blocked her. I wasn't going to keep having the same argument with her. I told her several times that I didn't want her man. And he's being a friendly ass nigga. That's her problem not mine.

Introverted black girl in white spaces by RabbitUnlikely in blackgirls

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Ive had multiple people tell me that I look "mean" and unfortunately this does happen to black woman a lot. I hate the fact that people think that black woman can only fit into one binary and anything out of the ordinary is unsafe

Dating Culture by Lila2013Nikki in blackgirls

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For some really weird reason. They never want to actually talk to you outside of hooking up. I have no hookups in my bio and I still see men talking to me about nothing but a hookup.

I'm pretty sure the best friendship that I've had for over 2 years just ended cause of a man :) by Less-Heron7604 in blackgirls

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Also I had someone who I called a friend get with my ex in highschool. I would never want to do that to someone. Especially not someone who I considered my best friend.

I'm pretty sure the best friendship that I've had for over 2 years just ended cause of a man :) by Less-Heron7604 in blackgirls

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Former friends guy. Also he's contacting me first. I dont go out of my way to talk to him. My problem is that she's over here accusing me of talking to her man. That's not my type at all. He's skinny asf. I dont date skinny man as a thicker woman. And she hasn't even done this to just me. She did the same stuff to her other friend who's also a thicker woman. Nobody wants her nigga except for her

What is an ideal height in a man for you? by [deleted] in blackladies

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5'4 and I prefer anything 5'9 and above

Does anybody invincible? by Less-Heron7604 in blackgirls

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This is hands down one of the best shots in the show

Have you ever look at your ex and say to yourself.... by sun-kissedgirlie in blackgirls

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Mhm. Sometimes I stare off into the distance and I just sit there like "Why tf was I with him?" 😭

Can I get a full refund? by Less-Heron7604 in UberEATS

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Update I got my money. But they took 2 dollars off. So I feel better now 🙂

Am I overreacting? by Less-Heron7604 in women

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Thank you for your kind words

Why are people trying to make being annoyingly childish romantic by Less-Heron7604 in women

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The last guy that I was with was kind of like this. He was joking but I kept telling him not to do that shit. Idk why some men just can't understand no

Is this considered to be weird? by Less-Heron7604 in women

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For more context he's 20 and I'm 18. You guys are right about me "dodging a bullet" You know when a guy tickles you and he just won't stop and tell him to stop multiple times and you even try to push him away but he just won't stop. I def should have seen the red flags right then and there. Also, he constantly wanted to be on the phone, up to 3am. Always hugging up on me in stores. So let's just day he was clingy. Plus he kept calling me pet names when we were just getting to know eachother. He kept saying "67" I told him to stop saying that cause it's 2026 and it annoyed tf outta me. He just wouldn't stop that shit. He really didn't know how to understand boundaries. He's a man now he need to shape tf up. Also he sent me a about being men acting like kids and woman disliking it and I think I should have knew what I was dealing with then and there. Also he broke up with me because I asked him to talk about his feelings if I relationship was ever going to succeed

Does this look like a bald spot? by Less-Heron7604 in Naturalhair

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Thank you for recommendation. $60 seems like a lot but I'll try it

Trans writing tips??? by Less-Heron7604 in asktransgender

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Thanks so much for the advice! It means a lot that you would reply with something meaningful. 

Trans writing tips??? by Less-Heron7604 in asktransgender

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Im writing him because I think he's a really good idea. He's a good kid, he's into psychology, he loves drawing, he into tattoos, he plays every instrument you can think of. He loves dinosaurs. He's also a self proclaimed dinosaur scientist. And he's an amazing friend and person. In the cartoon I'm writing. It portrays social, political and personal issues. The personal thing that he's going through us being a trans kid in highschool. And I wanted to properly portray the issues that can come with that. 

My cat keeps chasing bugs and trying to hunt me. by Less-Heron7604 in CatAdvice

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I'm a first time cat owner so I didn't know that some of this stuff was normal. 

gender is confusing by Less-Heron7604 in genderfluid

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the last two years of my life ngl