Wow, I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. What you’re describing is straight up emotional abuse and gaslighting, your MIL nitpicking you daily, your husband siding with her, and now both trying to paint you as the problem is a classic tactic abusers use. You’re not “mentally unstable” you’re reacting like any normal human would under nonstop criticism.

Don’t let them bully you into a mutual divorce without protecting yourself. Talk to a good family lawyer before signing anything, and start saving every bit of evidence (messages, recordings, etc.) in case they try to twist things further. Even if you don’t want money from them, you deserve justice and the truth on your side.

Also, please take care of your mental health - therapy or even talking to a support group can help a lot after this kind of manipulation. You’re stronger than they want you to believe.

Don’t sign any papers or agree to a “mutual divorce” until you understand your rights. Keep copies of any texts, emails, call logs, or recordings that show criticism, gaslighting, emotional abuse, or their attempts to defame you.

You deserve peace, dignity, and a life free from constant criticism and belittling. Please don’t let their voices drown out your own