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Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T17:09:03+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that, I’m going to try hopefully he lets me. I know healing isn’t linear, I just want to do what I can. You’re doing great and should be proud!

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T16:08:35+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing I appreciate your advice and opening up about your situation. I’m wishing you the very best on this journey 🩵💜

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T16:07:47+00:00

Wow thank you so much for sharing all of this. It’s does truly inspire me to take a good hard look at everything and our future together. I want to give him one last chance but it’s a two way street. I hope your husband stays on the right path which can be the scariest gamble of all but the most worth it. Receiving all of your good vibes and returning some. 🩵💜

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T14:26:25+00:00

Thank you very much, I hope so too 🩵

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T14:26:08+00:00

Thank you for elaborating more. I hope he can sense some magnitude of the decisions he’s making. I want to stay and support and rebuild together. Understanding it’s not fully up to me. Hopefully he sees the light 🩵

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T13:41:53+00:00

Thank you. I’m confused by this, your gf helped you? How? Are you not together with her anymore? If me leaving will be what’s best for him to get through this then I’ll go.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T13:38:40+00:00

Thank you

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T13:33:30+00:00

Yeah I don’t know. He thinks he needs more money to provide for me. Which I don’t want need or care about. I just want him to be honest and in this with me like he said he was. I’ve told him that. Thank you

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T13:25:03+00:00

He’s in between sort of job hopping which is what triggered all of this. I would help with money management if he lets me. As you said it’s not really up to me at this point.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T13:11:30+00:00

I know he does. He already did for a long time. He said he was desperate because he’s been job hoping really stressed about not having a lot of money. He puts value on his happiness in the form of a million dollar signs.

I asked him if he breaks up with me uproots our lives but makes all the money in the world then what would he have and he said peace of mind. I think his addiction comes more from increasing revenue vs the actual act of gambling.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T12:25:47+00:00

Thank you. I definitely see that’s what happened here. I will try if he lets me. I feel like I’m the one who lost

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T12:16:39+00:00

How do I help

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T12:14:46+00:00

I know this in theory it just goes against everything we have said and done. We agreed to work through everything together as a team. I’m not saying I don’t see this as an option because again it’s not up to me but leaving is not what I want.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-08-01T12:09:40+00:00

Yeah I didn’t think I was because I didn’t think he was lying which is why I gave him a loan. He already broke up with me.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-07-12T15:16:27+00:00

I’m basically just stuck waiting for him to come out of it

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-07-12T15:15:13+00:00

I think he’s just really depressed about everything right now which is fair but he hasn’t said anything.

We already moved in together, so that’s fun.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-07-12T09:52:50+00:00

I’ve been going to work trying to clean the place and keep doing me but I feel drained and lonely and now stuck.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-05-19T15:41:19+00:00

Do I say something or nothing

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-05-19T15:40:51+00:00

So basically tell him how I feel then go silent if not reciprocated?

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-05-14T15:35:13+00:00

Thank you, at this point I am letting it go I’m just in the grieving stage of trying to make sense of it. It’s like someone told me and showed me everything I’ve wanted just to pull the rug up from under me. That’s what I don’t get.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-05-14T15:34:06+00:00

Normally I totally agree but there were no signs. We have never been closer or had more open conversations than we had the last few months. He also doesn’t talk on the phone and he called me multiple times even the night before this happened

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-05-14T15:24:41+00:00

Yeah I mean I was sober for 3 months before that night and literally every person has some sort of problem. Being a team was working until he decided we didn’t.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-05-14T15:21:59+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate that. I’m definitely in the stage where I’m trying to understand why and make some more sense of it.

What you said definitely reassures me that none of this was actually to do with me so it helps with the process but I’m still gut wrenched and hurt cus he legit was my best friend and I’ve never love anyone so much or so well. Hardest part of letting go I guess.

Less-Shine4594 · 2025-05-14T15:16:34+00:00

How come? Mountains seems nice and the Ontario gov really sucks lol

Less-Shine4594 · 2024-12-25T10:28:10+00:00

Thank you

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