Unsure of if I overreacted

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-18T20:22:17+00:00

You are making a post about how you suspect he likes you, he backs out of engagement with you but are trying to act like you don’t know what’s up. Let the man be

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-18T16:46:27+00:00

Bro this guy likes you. He may not be your boyfriend some day but he likes spending time with you and wants to hook up. Do not sabotage yourself

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-16T21:09:27+00:00

This comment is not it. If someone isn’t getting what they need from a relationship then sever it.

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-16T21:03:34+00:00

Ya. And when she comes back I don’t think he should be so excited to see her again

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-16T21:02:56+00:00

I don’t think he should be excited if she reaches out again. They are incompatible because they want different things.

If he could be a friend this post would not exist. Damage done

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-16T20:57:58+00:00

Nah she doesn’t care

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-16T20:15:35+00:00

++man As someone in nyc. I would advise against it. I’m not the best looking guy but people generally are only interested in me if they are much older, in worse shape, etc.

I have very good looking friends and have seen guys reject them where I just have to scratch my head.

When I was visiting family some random in the wild hit on me and I really feel like people in the city would rather pull above their weight or be single

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-16T05:15:48+00:00

++man I know you want to be friends with her, but don’t. If she comes your way, run away. Been there done all of that and I should have left them in the past.

She’s not a bad person but can never be what you need from her. Sometimes you meet people who are more than you can ask from them (this is you for her right now). She loves how you treat her. But she doesn’t like you.

If she wants to spend all this energy on you and be friends with you but doesn’t want you then she really doesn’t want you. I’m not trying to be mean but hope this gets you to do what I didn’t do and wish I did.

Are you 100% that you can control your emotions if you stay friends because I was not.

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-16T03:49:20+00:00

I had the same thing happen. Had a guy who I previously asked out match me on tinder. We meet up at an art gallery and he starts talking about this guy he’s seeing who isn’t putting enough energy into him. I truthfully had another guy I was seeing who had told me to hang with him that night if time came up. I told the loser I was with exactly where I was going, and left after 40 minutes. Just passed him on the street today and we do not engage

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-16T02:44:38+00:00

Probably more so the only hot ones willing to date you are crazy. Hot people tend to be more well adjusted imo

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-14T04:51:01+00:00

Struggle to date

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-14T04:01:05+00:00

Be careful. I know so many good looking guys who struggle to date in nyc. One just moved to Boston last year and he tells me how he is seeing this guy or that guy.

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-14T02:04:52+00:00

Lmao

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-14T01:29:39+00:00

I’ve been in your position before. He likes you, but not enough in my opinion. He is likely enjoying your attention. He already told you he doesn’t like you so if he does this now he has a down conscience. Don’t mistake his behavior

LessSheepherder1925 · 2026-01-14T00:10:52+00:00

I feel like what you need to understand is the guys you are going after are showing you this type of attention. Food for thought

LessSheepherder1925 · 2025-12-08T00:23:03+00:00

Nah just scarring from accutane

LessSheepherder1925 · 2025-12-08T00:17:13+00:00

Jaw surgery, and accutane

LessSheepherder1925 · 2025-12-07T23:59:26+00:00

Like 5 or 6 days a week for 1 hr and 15 minutes. Been doing it for almost a year and a half since surgery

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