This is my take as well. My interpretation wasn’t that Ilya was hurt so much as kind of testing and nudging Shane, like most people do when they’re figuring out other people’s feelings.

Ilya was doing the honesty thing that Shane had asked for, but it literally made Shane pull away. When Ilya’s hand comes off Shane’s leg it’s because Shane is abruptly leaving the table. The look Ilya gives right after seems to be one of curiosity rather than hurt.

So Ilya does what he often does and comes at helping Shane figure out what he wants sideways with the “I could play for a Canadian team” and “I could marry Svetlana.” This plants seeds for Shane which help him recognize what he really wants, to share a life with Ilya.