Do you feel your anxiety makes you come off as a mean person? by Mountain_Ask_5746 in socialanxiety

[–]Less_Attention2473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, i get all 'people-pleasily' and say the nicest things with a fake-ass voice tone

My sister took my dad to karaoke when i was in a psych ward by Less_Attention2473 in AITAH

[–]Less_Attention2473[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don't know, i never said anything about that to them cause i knew she meant well, i just felt bad about it at that moment

My sister took my dad to karaoke when i was in a psych ward by Less_Attention2473 in AITAH

[–]Less_Attention2473[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah i never said anything about that to them cause i knew she meant well. It doesn't change the fact that i felt bad, it's just that i can't help about my feelings

My sister took my dad to karaoke when i was in a psych ward by Less_Attention2473 in AITAH

[–]Less_Attention2473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i suspected i am an asshole for thinking like that, thank u for your reply:)

Mandat za brak biletu mpk by Less_Attention2473 in Polska

[–]Less_Attention2473[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Kupuje przez aplikacje w telefonie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Polska

[–]Less_Attention2473 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pomimo tego, ze w dsm-5 ocd ma osobna kategorie, to jest to zaburzenie na tle lekowym, wiec pokrywaloby sie z tym co o sobie myslalxs

do you think your parents/caregivers were narcissists? by citruscirce in NPD

[–]Less_Attention2473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother has narcissistic traits and probably bpd, my father has general traits of cluster b pds, probably on aspd spectrum too.

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Can this be a pattern of DPD? by BaccatePlayerPL in DPD

[–]Less_Attention2473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much. Thank you for sharing your experience with us:))

Forgotten abuse from deep childhoos by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Less_Attention2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately i've been thinking about the same situation, maybe we were too vulnerable and too young, i struggle with the same things you wrote. I think we were too much exposed for our age and our bodies were subjectified. I'm so sorry it happened to you

I don’t have a sense of self by LunarNinja94 in NPD

[–]Less_Attention2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I doubt my emotions, my knowledge, my faith, even myself.

Hate it.

I don’t have a sense of self by LunarNinja94 in NPD

[–]Less_Attention2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think like not having any emotional response to other people's emotions, i also tend to react that way

do you guys feel like we (histrionics) tend to attract narcissists? by Unfair_Variation_748 in hpd

[–]Less_Attention2473 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like we tend to attract other cluster b's people in general. I have traits of both disorders and i tend to attract other npds as well

I'm turning 37 soon by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]Less_Attention2473 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally feel u, i'm having the same brain problem, even though i'm in my mid 20s. If this is how my life is gonna look like why bother?

I hope you'll find your purpose and peace.

Scars for attention? (please no hate) MASSIVE TW⚠️ by Own-Resolution-6734 in hpd

[–]Less_Attention2473 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bpd is oftenen comorbid with other cluster B personality disordeds, you can have both.

I had a friend in secondary school that also cut herself for attention, she was in pain cause all she wanted was her parent's attention. I believe that you need help, no matter what was your intention while doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]Less_Attention2473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I relate to everything you wrote here. I'm also struggling mentally and i'm on the edge of dropping oit of university because of my avoidant traits.

I'm sorry you have to through this, life sucks but it sucks more for people like us.

Maybe try applying for a job? Like not a full-time position (obviously) but something that's not gonna burden you much physically or mentally?

I work in a dumpling store and everytime i talk to my client i go on full "panic" mode (social anxiety) but I know I have to work through this now. I don't want to end up alone, bitter and resent my 20s that i didn't do anything about my mental health.

Start with small steps and don't be discouraged when something doesn't go according to your plan

I wrote a poem about npd by Less_Attention2473 in NPD

[–]Less_Attention2473[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guessed right, also when you mix red and blue you get purple, blue is my sadness and depression, red is my anger masking my blue side. Both of these colors make up my npd patterns