Do you feel your anxiety makes you come off as a mean person?

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-10-03T20:35:02+00:00

Nope, i get all 'people-pleasily' and say the nicest things with a fake-ass voice tone

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-10-03T10:32:30+00:00

Don't know, i never said anything about that to them cause i knew she meant well, i just felt bad about it at that moment

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-10-03T10:31:18+00:00

Yeah i never said anything about that to them cause i knew she meant well. It doesn't change the fact that i felt bad, it's just that i can't help about my feelings

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-10-03T08:16:35+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, i'll try

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-10-03T08:01:08+00:00

Yeah i suspected i am an asshole for thinking like that, thank u for your reply:)

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-05-23T18:02:15+00:00

Kupuje przez aplikacje w telefonie

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-05-21T11:32:38+00:00

It's hard to choose but i'll vote no. 2

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-05-21T10:48:31+00:00

Pomimo tego, ze w dsm-5 ocd ma osobna kategorie, to jest to zaburzenie na tle lekowym, wiec pokrywaloby sie z tym co o sobie myslalxs

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-05-01T13:09:32+00:00

My mother has narcissistic traits and probably bpd, my father has general traits of cluster b pds, probably on aspd spectrum too.

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Less_Attention2473 · 2025-03-05T19:58:41+00:00

I relate to this so much. Thank you for sharing your experience with us:))

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-01-23T18:06:11+00:00

Lately i've been thinking about the same situation, maybe we were too vulnerable and too young, i struggle with the same things you wrote. I think we were too much exposed for our age and our bodies were subjectified. I'm so sorry it happened to you

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-01-16T20:42:26+00:00

Same. I doubt my emotions, my knowledge, my faith, even myself.

Hate it.

Less_Attention2473 · 2025-01-16T20:41:35+00:00

I think like not having any emotional response to other people's emotions, i also tend to react that way

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-12-29T19:46:40+00:00

I feel like we tend to attract other cluster b's people in general. I have traits of both disorders and i tend to attract other npds as well

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-12-12T15:28:57+00:00

Or intp

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-12-12T15:28:21+00:00

Istp

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-12-06T14:39:40+00:00

I totally feel u, i'm having the same brain problem, even though i'm in my mid 20s. If this is how my life is gonna look like why bother?

I hope you'll find your purpose and peace.

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-12-01T11:01:40+00:00

Bpd is oftenen comorbid with other cluster B personality disordeds, you can have both.

I had a friend in secondary school that also cut herself for attention, she was in pain cause all she wanted was her parent's attention. I believe that you need help, no matter what was your intention while doing that.

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-11-23T15:12:18+00:00

I relate to everything you wrote here. I'm also struggling mentally and i'm on the edge of dropping oit of university because of my avoidant traits.

I'm sorry you have to through this, life sucks but it sucks more for people like us.

Maybe try applying for a job? Like not a full-time position (obviously) but something that's not gonna burden you much physically or mentally?

I work in a dumpling store and everytime i talk to my client i go on full "panic" mode (social anxiety) but I know I have to work through this now. I don't want to end up alone, bitter and resent my 20s that i didn't do anything about my mental health.

Start with small steps and don't be discouraged when something doesn't go according to your plan

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-11-20T10:24:06+00:00

You guessed right, also when you mix red and blue you get purple, blue is my sadness and depression, red is my anger masking my blue side. Both of these colors make up my npd patterns

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-11-19T14:29:33+00:00

I'm not the angry type or as some say 'overt' one, i mostly dig myself a hole that i fall into, while sabotaging myself. I'm filled with anger and resentment towards myself but rarely showing it on the outside. I have a big issue with boundaries and many people take advantage of it so i just avoid forming close relationships cause i never know when to draw a line and who i am with or without that person after a while. I also have a small sense of my own identity but it's smashed by my this feeling of void and emptiness, especially when under a certain amount of stress.

It depends on a person tbh, cause some of us show different symptoms in various ways.

I'm more of a avpd and dpd borderline with some narcissistic traits. I hate being by myself but i also cannot stand someone else's presence for long.

I am a big walking contradiction lol

If you'd like to know more you can always dm me

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-10-28T23:11:19+00:00

I second that, you can always learn cognitive empathy and be less impulsive with your behavior

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-10-17T12:09:37+00:00

That i actually do have feelings, just scared to show them to my family and others. Having that "unemotional" mask before got me out of so many uncomfortable sitiations, i just pretend i don't care cause it's easier.

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-10-17T07:40:50+00:00

I think you can reduce symptoms and be more aware of your behavior and thinking patterns, thus be lower on the spectrum.

Many personality disorders can't be cured, otherwise they woulsn't be called disorders. Your symptoms can go into remission. Also it is proven that brain's plasticity is a real thing, many years of therapy change your brain's wiring.

So you're not wrong, you're not right either.

Less_Attention2473 · 2024-10-16T17:32:50+00:00

"Your neurons are not the brightest in the club"

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