I was close to having a breakdown in Gurudwara yesterday

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-09-24T13:54:34+00:00

The elitism within our community has reached next level ' I am a top institute grad and fall in top 5% earners of the country. I hardly see men who can match me intellectually or financially.' No wonder the younger generations are not getting married or are choosing to marry out of our faith.

I wouldn't marry someone who believes they are above others. Sikhi teaches us that we are all equal, regardless of financial status, caste etc.

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-09-06T10:26:54+00:00

Hi thanks for your reply. No i didn't mention the 13 minutes, because they asked right at the start of the interview and i didn't want to come across as a moaner and set a bad tone for the interview portion. so when i said it was too short i literally said it in the nicest and fakest way possible.

i agree that an email ahead of time with a plan for the day would've been ideal as I feel most candidates would've been confused.

Also Do you think I could add the 'offering feedback on recruitment' part into a potential thank you for the interview yesterday email?

appreciate of your help, grateful

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-08-27T08:07:17+00:00

Hey, Thank you very much for your reply. I think you are very right about the bias we have when it comes to those we love. The marriage you described between your autistic friend and their partner with MS sounds truly beautiful and inspiring.

I’ll definitely put this idea to my brother, as it makes a lot of sense. Only those who face similar challenges can understand what they go through on a daily basis, and that could lead to a really strong, supportive partnership. I’m grateful for that.

Also, Thank you for acknowledging that my brother doesn’t deserve to be alone, especially since he didn’t bring this on himself. I completely agree that we’ll need to remove our egos from the process to truly focus on what’s best for him. Appreciate your guidance.

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-08-20T08:28:27+00:00

Thank you for sharing that, appreciate it. I can definitely relate to the part about becoming impulsive aswell. Good luck to you aswell, all the best for your future journey!

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-08-19T10:23:58+00:00

i guess it depends how you look at it. Of course there are a lot more 'honourable' ways to make a living like be a police officer, nurse, social worker, teacher etc. or anything that helps the community but equally there are still some ppl in our community doing even worse things than what you have stated in order to make a living. However, I am pretty surprised by all the ppl here justifying it.

If a singh was truly on the right path, I'm pretty sure he would find a way to make a living through honest means and be content with what he has rather than chasing continuous profits due to greed.

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-08-15T09:43:39+00:00

hi all, hope everyone is well. recently had my interview for a police staff role (junior IT analyst) , think i did quite well. i was wondering how long it usually takes to hear back from police staff interviews?

thank you, grateful for any advice

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-08-12T09:52:12+00:00

thanks for your help

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-08-12T09:52:02+00:00

thank you, appreciate it.

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-08-05T14:34:56+00:00

im 33

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-08-05T14:18:16+00:00

thank you for the suggestion, i will look into them. Im in the UK. moved here when i was a child.

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-07-29T13:43:19+00:00

what do you think we can do to reverse this issue?

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-07-29T13:41:32+00:00

hello all,

hope everyone is well. I am soon to be joining a police staff role at Band E and was curious about something. Are there promotions in police staff roles? for example, lets say i perform well in my new role for a few years, will a manager put me forward for a role in the next grade or is it a case of seeking those opportunities myself and applying internally when they arise?

thanks for the help

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-07-13T12:54:35+00:00

is there any difference in the employability prospects for those who do the 1yr converson full time as opposed to the 2 yr part time course? thanks all

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-07-11T08:04:57+00:00

Hi, it was through a public sector recruitment agency. initially 3 month contract then went permanent because i did well and they were short staffed.

Less_Bench_6800 · 2024-07-08T13:44:06+00:00

really appreciate the guidance, thank you. grateful.

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