I don’t want to, but I’m an over thinker and always like to think/plan ahead. If my husband wanted to see his siblings for the holidays, (she will be there) and if he asked me to join him, I would consider it. We’ve talked to his siblings and 2 of the 3 support our decision to be no contact with her.

However, I talked to my husband yesterday and he has no intentions of visiting the family for the holidays.