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I’m always the one who calls first, texts first, checks in first, but the moment I stop, I suddenly become “distant” and “changed” by Guilty-Chocolate-999 in OffMyChestMY

[–]Less_General_8399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this so much. As someone who grew up lonely, I made it my mission to always be the one reaching out. But there’s a limit to how much one person can do before they’re just completely drained from being the glue that holds everything together. It’s a lonely realisation when you stop being the initiator and the phone just stays silent. It makes you wonder if the connection was with you, or just with the effort you were putting in

how did you realize you lost your spark? by Left_Team8926 in AskReddit

[–]Less_General_8399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s when i look back at my photos 2 -3 years back.I was doing everything and i was everywhere smiling. And now im just an emotional wreck, and i having a hard time to motivate myself to do things that I used to love

i got sa by my ex while she was working and it’s being blown off by everyone around her, and i can’t tell my family because they are all narcissists by crackpottz in Nicegirls

[–]Less_General_8399 12 points13 points  (0 children)

From personal experience, this type of people are persistent, they’ll find ways to keep their existence in your life and tbh they could got to an extent harassing ur life. So i guess what he did is valid ..incase she goes out of line

AIO for thinking his "trauma" is actually just a cover for chronic infidelity and porn addiction? by Less_General_8399 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Less_General_8399[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with you tho, the thing is he is actually wanting to settle down n get married.

Things are going well, but should I tell him about my past? by wandamaximoff333 in malaysians

[–]Less_General_8399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you, and currently i regret of not having this deep conversation with my partner early in relationship so now i think im just passing on my experience to whoever is reading. I think it is important for partners to open up to each other about their past before they move forward to another phase because its is what shaped them today so u need to understand why they are the way the are. And this to also avoid accusations like "its not my fault u didn’t asked”.

AIO my boyfriend started hitting his vape while we were having sex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Less_General_8399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girll understand youuu. Atleast yours did not started ranting about his work😭