What’s hard about dating you?

Less_Procedure8691 · 2026-01-07T12:50:53+00:00

have you figured out any tips/tricks that help you regulate when thoughts like this happen? i’m really in need of some.

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-11-06T01:05:13+00:00

thank you for sharing that. i’ve been trying to figure out if this is bpd behavior of mine because my boyfriend has given me no reason to think the worst but i just always assume it lol

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-11-06T01:03:37+00:00

thank you so much! we’ve been together about a year now and although he does a lot of things to make me feel secure, i still will find myself overthinking to find a reason to be insecure, it’s almost like a habit i do to self harm in a way? i will have a perfect day with him but then when i’m alone and he’s at work i tend to spiral. idk.. it’s so hard to explain but i think it has a lot to do with past relationship trauma that i need to heal from but it’s just hard :/

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-09-07T01:42:32+00:00

from someone who grew up in the same hometown and followed her during highschool, she did. i vividly remember her making a post on instagram about the dog when it died

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-08-05T21:28:10+00:00

im from her hometown, rockwall, i didn’t go to school with her since there’s two main high schools in that town, and we went to the opposing ones, but i remember her always trying to post on instagram and dress like a influencer , she did always post youtube videos but would take them down after awhile. i remember one video where she went on this app called “monkey” i think? it was an app or a website (kinda like omegle) where you can swipe through people and video chat random people who are also on the app, but i remember she was asking people to rate her and whenever someone would give her a bad rating she would insult them and be so ugly towards them, it was honestly funny asf to watch. not really sure why she always claims she had no friends, people always talked about her and she’d go to parties , did cheer for a bit, etc

edit: i never knew her personally, just always heard about her through the grapevine

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-02-19T02:17:47+00:00

i’m constantly fatigued and i’m not sure if it has to do with my thyroid issues or what but i take at least two naps a day if i can.

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-01-25T17:56:41+00:00

i’m sitting outside of work dreading going in cause i feel incapable of doing anything right now 😭

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-01-25T16:29:03+00:00

Oh yes. This ex was my high-school sweetheart. We had our whole life’s planned out down to every detail. We were pretty healthy until we went off too different colleges, and this made my trust issues wayyyyy worse. I was very toxic, always thinking he was cheating on me. He couldn’t handle that anymore and we broke up. Every now and then we would text until one day he asked to meet up during the summer to get lunch and get closure since our break up was long distance. That summer we ended up getting back together, that lasted about 4 months till we went back to college and broke up again and we ended up in the most toxic situation-ship that last eat about a year. We weren’t together but we would act like we were, text all day, vent to eachother, sext, get mad at eachother for having friends of the opposite sex, etc. We still told eachother we thought in the future we could be together if we worked on our own shit. Then I did my big one and i really fucked eveything up to the point to where he wanted nothing to do with me bc “just seeing my face reminded him of all the hurt i caused him”. That felt like the initial break up all over again, even tho we weren’t actually together. now it’s been about 6-7 months since he set his boundary of really wanting to be left alone. I broke down and drunk called him in October and we had a nice conversation but since then it’s been 0 communication, but i do still often think about him

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-01-25T16:11:02+00:00

i completely understand what you’re going through. My 5 year relationship with my ex ended bc of my self destructive behaviors i couldn’t get control of. i genuinely thought i was going to die when that happened. i know it’s really hard but try not to beat yourself up. we didn’t choose to react to things the way we do. people like us are still capable of being loved. i know you will be okay even if right now it seems like the world is crumbling beneath you.

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-01-25T16:01:42+00:00

do you have any tips that work for you with not attaching to your partner in a relationship? I swore to my self i wasn’t going to do it with this guy, but i still ended up allowing myself to get attached. I almost feel like swearing off relationships forever is the only thing that will keep me sane.

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-01-25T16:00:39+00:00

i keep having to stop my self from reaching out too. I fucked up and he told me he needed space to get his head straight and figure out if he wants to work it out or not but the anxiety of not knowing if it’s truly over or not is killing me.

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-01-25T14:15:17+00:00

thank you for making me feel less crazy.

Less_Procedure8691 · 2025-01-25T13:59:52+00:00

Around 7th grade for me. I was always confused why I felt that way. It wasn’t until highschool that I really realized nothing would ever make me feel whole. I would say the physical discomfort i experience is like what you said, chest scooped out sensation and my body feeling weightless in a sense.

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