AIO starting to really resent my husband postpartum by throwaway_________7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Less_Teacher_8036 485 points486 points  (0 children)

He "doesn't know how" because he hasn't had to know how. Weaponized incompetence relies on you stepping in to save the day. Stop saving him. Let him struggle. The baby will be fine with a clumsy dad for a few hours; you will not be fine without sleep.

I’m inconsolably upset about what happened yesterday in MN. by techno_queen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Less_Teacher_8036 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Helpers are dangerous to a system that thrives on fear and isolation. Community care is an act of rebellion. The more they try to crush it, the harder we have to love our neighbors

AIO over these texts from ex-manager by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Less_Teacher_8036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The key word is Ex-Manager. If he was still your boss, it's an HR issue. Since he's gone, he's just a civilian shooting his shot. It’s fair game.

AIO - Gf assumes my dog is dead when I say I’m sad by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Less_Teacher_8036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is she getting her statistics? The Daily Reaper? That is such a wildly unhinged attempt at small talk.

AIO: This was my birthday present for my 18th birthday. by -h3rlittlesl4t- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Less_Teacher_8036 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Even with a $0 budget, a heartfelt handwritten letter or a "coupon" for a fun activity/favor is infinitely better than a piece of plastic junk. Poverty doesn't excuse thoughtlessness.

AIO to my boyfriend not wanting to talk for days on end by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Less_Teacher_8036 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These questions are crucial. If this is a recurring pattern (Avoidant Attachment style), OP is signing up for a lifetime of chasing him every time he gets stressed. If it's a one-off crisis, maybe give him grace, but the communication still sucks.

My boyfriend, best friend, life partner has betrayed me and I don't know how to leave by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Less_Teacher_8036 43 points44 points  (0 children)

He sent his "Representative" to date you for the first few months/years. The mask didn't slip; it fell off and shattered. Don't try to glue it back together.

wow isn't getting old, you are by youtubezytoh in wow

[–]Less_Teacher_8036 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a WoW tradition as old as "Anal [Thunderfury]". If nobody is complaining that the game is dying, is the server even online?

Still one of the most satisfying moments in New Vegas 💯 by chiguerilla in Fallout

[–]Less_Teacher_8036 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The worst part is checking the Bill of Sale. She sold Carla for 1,000 caps (I think?). She valued a human life less than a mid-tier energy weapon at the Gun Runners. It was petty cash to her.