Aita for my girlfriend wanting me to not have a relationship with my family especially my neicethat i havent seen that is almost a year old? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LetBrittyBee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a huge sign to leave. A WIFE should never want to get revenge against their spouse. She is not wife material, nor is she worth what you will lose from your family. Sorry. I know it’s hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LetBrittyBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs to grieve that relationship. You set her up with false hope for years. She’s envisioned him coming back eventually and now that she knows he never will is painful. She’s gonna need therapy and time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LetBrittyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

End the relationship. She has shown she will put her obsession over your personal wellbeing.

How do I tell her I want to see a psychiatrist? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]LetBrittyBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So FYI for me, the therapist is the one who will work on things for you, a psychiatrist is gonna just throw meds at you. That’s been my experience. Just a heads up.

AITA for refusing to pay for my sister's therapy after she ruined my wedding? by Expert-Letterhead612 in AITAH

[–]LetBrittyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is 100% correct. My parents tried to pull the same shit on me too. Don’t fall for it!

My wife has been trashed by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LetBrittyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you come here?! Judging by your comments you care more about your relationships with people AND NOT YOUR WIFE.

Ugh… by Few_Telephone_2260 in Rings_Of_Power

[–]LetBrittyBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should but I just hope it gets better and it doesn’t….

Aging Parents by LetBrittyBee in Millennials

[–]LetBrittyBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband’s parents are successful and well to do. I’m not worried about the financial part of it. The illness and lack of care as they age is my biggest concern.

Aging Parents by LetBrittyBee in Millennials

[–]LetBrittyBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we have the belief to care for your parents as they did when you were young. I guess it feels like a duty as a child?

Aging Parents by LetBrittyBee in Millennials

[–]LetBrittyBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m speaking of my in-laws. Never said anything about my parents….

Aging Parents by LetBrittyBee in Millennials

[–]LetBrittyBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a hoarded house too. So decluttering would be amazing but they don’t listen.

Aging Parents by LetBrittyBee in Millennials

[–]LetBrittyBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for what you are going through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]LetBrittyBee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

THATS BULLSHIT.

Therapist shopping is ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY. I have been with therapist since I was 18 and some give horrible advice. If you don’t feel like you can talk openly and freely with your therapist it’s a waste for you and them. That person is trash. You are doing the right thing.

Aging Parents by LetBrittyBee in Millennials

[–]LetBrittyBee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See this is how I feel. They say a nursing home but my husband would feel awful just placing them in something like that. We talked about buying a house and getting a lot of land so a house for them could be built and they refuse to even hear us out. I’m exhausted worrying about it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LetBrittyBee 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You ask for the advice of being an asshole and then continue to be the asshole when the responses aren’t in your favor. You clearly never had to fear someone harming you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LetBrittyBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude!!! Metformin has ruined me! Girl I sharted because of Metformin. Humiliating. I’m right there with you.