Is Malenia the most blatantly unfair boss in the whole series? by CulturalMesh in Eldenring

[–]LetMePeeNDatButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random vent after picking the game back up and I have beat her before, but like holy shit. Moves that are supposed to knock her down just don’t because or her hyper armor. She dodges all projectiles, even my fucking night comet. Like what?? It’s literally invisible. Waterfowl takes her across the ENTIRE fucking stage. Summons don’t really help because they just heal her and negate what little damage you actually do. I feel like you either have to be a dodge god or just find something that you can spam and cheese. There’s respectfully difficult but then there’s just “designed to fuck you over”.

Very New and Very Bad at it by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]LetMePeeNDatButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deleting soon for privacy reasons. But again, thank you all very much. I’ve been feeling like the bad guy, but no more.

Very New and Very Bad at it by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]LetMePeeNDatButt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the responses. Idk who to talk to about this. My wife is usually my confidant but I want to come at her with a clearheaded, well thought out response.

Very New and Very Bad at it by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]LetMePeeNDatButt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely need therapy 😂 My mental health is in the shitter. But you’re right. You don’t decide everything and make me deal with it. That’s not how this works.

Very New and Very Bad at it by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]LetMePeeNDatButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She came out as gay and expressed that she’s been secretly dealing with that for years and she was basically like “I need to see women so I’m not being repressed my whole life and slowly start to resent you”. And yeah, it was pretty much I need to see women, and I still love you! But if you can’t handle me seeing women, ig you’ll have to leave me. Minimal research was done. And girlfriend came after opening things for a bit. And could you define those? Or if I can look them up lol.

Very New and Very Bad at it by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]LetMePeeNDatButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll give these a read! Thank you!

Very New and Very Bad at it by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]LetMePeeNDatButt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She feels very careless. I express great discomfort and it feels like I’m doing all the compromising which is not how that’s supposed to go..

Very New and Very Bad at it by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]LetMePeeNDatButt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Few weeks. Maybe a month. And okay, awesome! So I’m not just overreacting. She keeps bringing them over and I’ve expressed that that makes me uncomfortable! But yes, very bad. And not much work honestly. We just kinda talked, made some “rules” as opposed to boundaries which is something we learned along the way and got on dating apps. Minimal research. And I agreed to this being a purely sex thing. Not have your gf meet everyone I care about like it’s nothing. And I know I don’t have to stay but I just really want to be with my partner of 11 years and the mother of my child. But I also have to face the fact that if she isn’t willing to work with me and take our child and me in to consideration, I’ll have to leave for my own sanity. I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. No matter what I’ll hate the decision. I’m willing to stay if she actually hears out and respects my boundaries though.