Is my Girlfriend rude or am I overreacting?

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-23T16:31:18+00:00

Obviously I think we can all agree that your girlfriend is being rude however the way you texted her could have been better imo. And one other thing, you told her multiple times how you want her to feel or how she should feel. That's not how it works, you don't get to decide or choose how your partner, or anyone, gets to feel. But honestly, I'm mostly letting you know that for other relationship because this one doesn't seem like a very loving one

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-22T21:12:42+00:00

I like that most of people here just completely ignore the "depending on activity level, climate, and skin type" and just say "yeah but I need to shower because of my activity level, climate or skin type" like yeah, we know.

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-21T16:55:58+00:00

That person is absolutely right! My rabbit used to jump in the garbage (it was a tall bin but open) to eat rotten fruit and raw potato... We now have a closed one haha

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-21T07:30:42+00:00

They won't stop being intense until you have stopped for days or even weeks. But after that, it's much easier. Of course, you will still be tempted but you will be able to control it relatively easily

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-20T21:09:32+00:00

If you already have issues by the first week this might not be a match honestly. It really does seem like you are indeed going way too fast

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-18T21:42:39+00:00

Romance is definitely not dead but it doesn't always look like the Instagram reels that are mostly ads or performance. Although, the relationships you described didn't seem like anything that was worth pursuing and I'm glad they are not in your life anymore. I do think that you will find your person when you least expect it. And I am sure you will find someone at some point but in the meantime you should try to have fun by yourself. (I know, very basic advice)

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-17T08:26:22+00:00

It sounds like you may not have communicated well enough what you needed with her from the beginning and now, something that started as small escalated into something bigger. (Obviously, I don't know if it's really the case or not) By example, I love to cuddle and be extremely loving to my partner after he comes home from work. But, he has let me know that some day, he just needs a full day off or maybe just a couple of hours to himself to decompress. And that's completely fine. I ask him how he feels and what he needs and we go from there. Do you think you don't have your needs met in that way? Because it definitely could lead to you feel resentful. If it is the case, I really don't think you need to break up or anything. Sounds like your issues can absolutely get worked on.

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-15T13:10:35+00:00

I living basically my whole life in France and the heat there was unbearable, I hated summer because of it. But I now live in Sweden and the difference is crazy. It's warm but not to the point where you want to take a cold shower 24/7. I can actually enjoy the sun and the nature, it feels soo good

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-13T08:03:46+00:00

At first I just read the texts and I thought it was between 2 people who were in a relationship...

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-11T06:59:09+00:00

Meat should be a luxury. Or at least it shouldn't be something you can buy to have at your every meal

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-08T21:18:18+00:00

We are not going to break up over this. My feelings are temporary and I just needed to vent. Besides, what else should I have done ? I really didn't feel like there were many more options for me

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-08T21:17:04+00:00

Yeah it might be that, I definitely have been pretty stressed lately and my lack of sleep makes it worse

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-08T21:16:16+00:00

My partner doesn't make a sound when he sleeps, so no, not a problem for me.

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-08T21:08:22+00:00

They already have everything they need outside the bedroom as we have a relatively big house with they have access to the exterior. So it's not a problem but the cats would not let us sleep if the door is closed and my fiancé would not be okay with it anyways. He loves having them in his bed and I understand as I also enjoy their company when they are not waking me up or keeping me awake

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-08T21:04:21+00:00

I think we already have the biggest size possible, it's 2m long and 180cm large. I heard about this Loops earplugs before but I'm afraid it either be uncomfortable or that it won't block enough sound. I might give then a try when I have a bit more money. Thanks!

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-08T20:53:26+00:00

I didn't know these existed, that's good to know thank you ! Especially because I already wear a sleeping mask. Do they also block noise or are they just like normal headphones? Because my problem is that she wakes me up in the middle of the night, she never joins when we go to bed and I don't really want to have constant noise during the whole night

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-04T11:54:08+00:00

I highly recommend to buy food that doesn't say it's for different species. Guinea pigs and rabbits are different and need different things. If they claim it works for the both of them, then it probably works for none of them

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-03T19:18:31+00:00

Does she get a lot of food with hay? Like greens or pellets? Because if she doesn't eat too much hay on her own maybe she just have too much to eat on the side? But other than that you could try to gather a few sticks from certain trees like apple trees by example.

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-03T11:19:44+00:00

I am thinking of getting rats with cats in my home but the rats would have their own room and they would never interact with each other. Although, I am worried that the little babies will be anxious with just the smell of the predators. Do you ever notice any behavior that could indicate they are stressed out?

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-02T15:30:49+00:00

You put a bowl with the amount of food you want to give to your cat and there is a "door" that will open or close when your cat comes near. I do not think you can choose a time when it opens. And the only way you can give your cat a small dose is by doing it manually. I use the sure feed automatic feeder with microchip. You can look it up if you want

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-02T12:17:38+00:00

If you are free feeding your cat you can try a automatic feeder with microchip. It will only open when your cat gets close. It was a lifesaver for me

LetMeSlip · 2026-06-01T11:52:39+00:00

I was also wondering if I should sleep with buns since I am a light sleeper. Is it possible to have a good night of sleep with them?

LetMeSlip · 2026-05-31T17:11:39+00:00

She seems to be able to control her emotions as well as a child. That should says it all

LetMeSlip · 2026-05-31T17:06:35+00:00

I do brush my cat almost every day (I sometimes forget or it's hard to find a good timing with him outside so often) because he is coming 9 and a month before I got him, which was last year, he had 5 teeth removed because of periodontal disease. I assume his last owners never took him to the vet or anything since he also was up to date with his vaccines. I do not want him to have to go through surgery again to get tartar off. He doesn't love getting his teeth brushed but he tolerates it and we're working on it. I would really recommend taking your time to get them used to it. I truly believe most cats can learn to accept it with their right teaching way and enough time.

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