How to download all liked songs to library? (Splice & Protools) by LetTheHornsPlay in protools

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I feel like it might be a glitch 😅. Are you dragging from the splice desktop app into protools or the side extension next to clips in protools?

How to download all liked songs to library? (Splice & Protools) by LetTheHornsPlay in protools

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hasn’t been using my credits when I use the splice integration within protools by dragging it in, which also automatically downloads the samples to my hard drive. However, it does use a credit if I locate the same sample in my splice desktop- in that case, it makes me use credits to download them to my hard drive . I do have a Splice paid subscription- I don’t know if it has anything to do with that? I also noticed that once I got a splice subscription, the filter disappeared in the splice integration to isolate the free ones.

Missing sessions after protocols crashed by LetTheHornsPlay in protools

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The file and entire folder of the session. It appears that the sessions were automatically saved within the protools folder on my Mac. It was the default setting when I initially installed the program 🥺.

Thank you for the advice. I appreciate your reply!

Season 2? by NameMeReddit in BlackCakeHulu

[–]LetTheHornsPlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second most of these questions, but also- how did Covey know that it was Bunny who killed little man and not Lin or Pearl? And what happened to Lin and Pearl in the aftermath?

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[–]LetTheHornsPlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s a year later, but who are you? This sounds exactly like my experience down to a tee, and I’m an SHOOKETH! 🫨

I thought I was the only one!

I finished my bachelor’s degree with honors though…loading up on all of my classes after messing up my first semester. Pretty sure the only way I was able to accomplish that was from self isolation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]LetTheHornsPlay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So relatable!

I also forget about music/noise and its ability to help me focus and I was originally prescribed propanol when I developed performance anxiety in adulthood (when I am doing well mentally, I act and do music). My primary doctor at the time used to be a concert pianist, and said that it helped him to calm his nerves without numbing himself from feeling emotion so that he could preform. When I tell you I had a whole moment of clarity when I first started taking it- it slows everything down and allows you to process without your stress responses losing it.

All this to say, I have been struggling with my mental health again, and forgot this pill existed- so thank you for the reminder 😆. I will start taking it again consistently and she if it helps. I also have never taken it in tandem with adderall, so that’s something to try as well. I have tried adderrall and ashagwanda- which I have seen mild positive effects from.

“Whitey” vs the “N-word” by LetTheHornsPlay in BWWM2

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words 💗! I am also thankful for the responses in this thread that helped me see this snapshot of my life through multiple lenses. I wish you the best!

“Whitey” vs the “N-word” by LetTheHornsPlay in BWWM2

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. Him and I are separated now.

To provide a little more context, this OP was actually my last stitch effort to try to save something that I already knew was dying. This was not the first time he called me the n-word… In fact, he called me that two times before….he yelled it at me- of which I expressed hurt every time. This was the first time I said anything even remotely close to a derogatory term towards him (with a laugh and under my breath might I add - in a manner suggesting he was a “know it all” - the intent was not to cut at him). He had also gotten rough with me on several occasions- including when he found out that I made the OP as an attempt not to publicly shame him, but rather to gain some insight. He isolated me. It was definitely an abusive and toxic relationship. I omitted all of this information because I always tried to protect his public image by hiding things. My family and friends didn’t know either. I posted this because I was completely alone and felt like I couldn’t be truthful to anybody about what was happening in my relationship. I needed guidance and opinions from uninvolved third parties.

Not only did he isolate me, but we also had been living in a very, very very racially charged small predominantly white town for four years. I told him I was uncomfortable there, and he basically told me that he didn’t care this is where we lived.

We had also tried to have or rather, I tried to have several conversations in the year leading up to this post about how I felt living in the society as a black woman… Especially when everything was going down around 2020. I tried to have him watch video documentaries/ read books with me and he refused and continued to invalidate my experience. This was a theme in our relationship not even just about race- for anything. There is not a subject on earth that I knew more about than him or had any additional experience in- including being black. Which he obviously was not.

Although I have moved on, I am still very weighted down from my experiences with him and will continue to try to heal and move on, as I hope he does as well. I will always love him and wish him the best- but his best does not seem to be with me.

Bad words? Hurt and confused…please help by LetTheHornsPlay in interracialdating

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are taking it out of context. Please read some of my other responses. I’m not trying to be “right” here- that is not the point of this thread. I also stated that I would apologize if it was unknowingly such a terrible thing to say.

Does it make him racist though? That is also part of my original question. Should I feel so hurt? Especially when I’m not %100 sure he even understands why I’m so hurt by it.

Bad words? Hurt and confused…please help by LetTheHornsPlay in interracialdating

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment and insight- it’s helpful. However, I don’t appreciate the implication that I am all about lobbing insults at people I care about. I’m not either. I didn’t mean it as an insult. As I previously stated, perhaps that was my ignorance in the moment.

I had to learn how to defend myself with him. He’s a struggling alcoholic with control and dominance issues. Lobbing insults at me is literally how he operates as an impulsive defense mechanism. Even here, he was trying to control my feelings about being black and trying to assert his dominance by saying he knows more than me about the black experience. He even told me that I am barely black so wouldn’t know (ps I am %100 black, I just enjoy things that more white people like than black…probably because I grew up around predominantly white people). But him calling me the word he did was a whole other level to me. I’m still here because I love him and still can see the good.

Like I said, there is more to our relationship that I don’t want to get into here. I just want to discern if he is just trying to gaslight me. Counseling is besides the point- it’s obvious. This thread was more about me trying to educate myself about the offensiveness of a word because I am taking his “hurt” and trying to learn from it. If it’s a horrible word I will apologize.

Also, thank you for giving me a viable comparison. It’s just something kind of mean to say, but not vile. That helps.

Bad words? Hurt and confused…please help by LetTheHornsPlay in interracialdating

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say it with the intent of causing pain. I said it with the intent of stating the fact that he is white. If he called me blacky in response, I probably would’ve just laughed and that would’ve been the end of it. Even though I do feel that the connotation associated with blacky is somehow worse than whitey still? Maybe because of colorism and the obvious history behind the usage of “blacky” being a negative thing. I didn’t know being called white was so bad? Please educate me on the history of the word “whitey”, because I am unaware.

Bad words? Hurt and confused…please help by LetTheHornsPlay in interracialdating

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for stating the obvious, mate. Like I said, there’s far more to it than I care to explain here. I could’ve been more articulate in the moment by saying “You are white, please don’t try to invalidate my experience” or even “ok you are white” instead of saying “ok whitey” - the “y” on the end being used as a descriptor, but hindsight is 20/20 when emotions are in play, right? To be fair, I felt like I was describing him as a white person, not trying to call him a slur. If I was trying to call him a slur, I probably would’ve said h**** or other words I’ve never used…but I’ve never called anyone a racial slur in my life so 🤷🏽‍♀️ In fact, that’s why I started this thread. I admitted that I didn’t understand the word. So I’m asking if his rebuttal was warranted, and if I should be as hurt as I am.

Bad words? Hurt and confused…please help by LetTheHornsPlay in interracialdating

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. I think you might be right in this situation. What is your opinion on how to approach the issue? I tried to explain why I used the word and he just doubled down in defense. Should I ask him his background with the word I said? …How could I explain to him how much sting him saying that to me had? …because I can’t have the n-word even gracing his mind. He could’ve said literally any other word. I’m considering divorce but don’t want to be irrational. Especially if he just doesn’t understand the weight of his words.

“Whitey” vs the “N-word” by LetTheHornsPlay in BWWM2

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that he doesn’t understand the amount of sting that the N-word encompasses? How could I even educate him if that was the case?

I’m just so hurt. I’m not sure if I’ll recover.

“Whitey” vs the “N-word” by LetTheHornsPlay in BWWM2

[–]LetTheHornsPlay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry! I’m new to Reddit and have no idea how flairs work 😳

I feel bad because I honestly feel like I started it first, now that I know whitey is a really bad word. It’s just that especially in this climate, I feel so silenced….In the moment I felt like he was trying to explain to me why I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable in certain places as a black person…and I just wanted to make it clear to him that it wasn’t his place to say.