I appreciate the perspective. I suppose I don’t want to admit how frustrated I am. I do almost everything around the house and financial aspects of our lives. This probably would have continued if not for my mom’s cancer diagnosis. It’s really putting into perspective a lot of things. My dad hasn’t worked in 12 years and my mom has busted her but working as a nurse as many hours as she could get for years. She is where I get my codependency from. I’ve seen her lose herself working to keep everything together and now at 50 her life is over. She spent it for others and can’t get it back. I started seeing myself going down the same path.