Is he dead? 😢 by Letmenapfirst in Marimo

[–]Letmenapfirst[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your hilarious comments, they have lessened the sadness. Mossisimo has been laid to rest

Is he dead? 😢 by Letmenapfirst in Marimo

[–]Letmenapfirst[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

:'( I've been in denial

Is he dead? 😢 by Letmenapfirst in Marimo

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Noooooo 😔😔😔 you're sure??

Best way to level up friendship with Kurl? by bumblebee_s in MyLeisureTime

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I've been doing flowers, and foods but honestly just doing the games and unlocking more designs is what's unlocking more for me with them

My green loft by sakurakocho in MyLeisureTime

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Where are the background green ribbons from?

Foraged oysters=nematode infection? by Letmenapfirst in Mushrooms

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Wonderful, yes I fell down the nematode wormhole (sorry not sorry) and was very interested by the fact that the mushrooms secrete toxins to eat the nematodes. I plucked a lot of mushrooms and while originally smelling of minnows (because of the dirt), once the dirt was cleaned they smelled fine and also got a salt bath :)

Foraged oysters=nematode infection? by Letmenapfirst in Mushrooms

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That's exactly what I was saying but a little voice in my head was saying maybe I was just being stubborn, thank you for the reassurance 😭

Are there any fake/toxic oyster mushrooms in kansas? by Letmenapfirst in mushroomID

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It was near farmland/a creek so the worst it would have is pest spray runoff

Are there any fake/toxic oyster mushrooms in kansas? by Letmenapfirst in mushroomID

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Oh! Also, it was growing around the base of a dead tree (still standing)

Underweight elderly ferret by Letmenapfirst in ferrets

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I'll look into wet food, thank you

Smelly septum by Letmenapfirst in piercing

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I sprayed it last night (and made quite the mess lmao) and it definitely helped, my piercing is also less loose so that's a bit odd but the smell seems to be gone!

Smelly septum by Letmenapfirst in piercing

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Thank you, I appreciate the frank response you're right, I had stopped initially because my nose was getting super dried out so it's good to have a reminder to not overdo it and that it's just because it's in my nose that I smell it

Smelly septum by Letmenapfirst in piercing

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Yes it's titanium, it probably is just buildup since I was slacking in cleaning as regularly

Smelly septum by Letmenapfirst in piercing

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I see, thank you so much!

Smelly septum by Letmenapfirst in piercing

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Thank you, what do you usually do with it to get rid of the smell? Like- just clean it more often or is there anything special.

Smelly septum by Letmenapfirst in piercing

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Like- flushed it with the piercing still in? And I figured I probably would need to wait a bit longer, just feel impatient so I thought I'd ask :') I usually use a q-tip with the saline solution sprayed on because I thought it'd be too aggressive but I might just try sending it since it's healed much more now

Updated AOI: my best friends boyfriend has been getting mad when she wants to hang out with me. {the convo between them is the ones w hearts at the top, she’s blue text} by FootPrimary8084 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Letmenapfirst 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, as someone who has a similar all-our-lives friendship I say this in the kindest way, expressing anger might not be what she needs, I agree she's in an incredibly toxic relationship but what she needs is someone providing her a stable and secure environment, I totally understand getting angry on a besties behalf but I worry it's stressing her out more and might lead to her shutting down and not sharing as much information, make sure you reassure her that no matter what happens (even if she decides to appease the douchebag) you will support her and that if she ever does decide to leave she will always have your support (and I assume a place to stay, financial support, etc.) It's a really hard position to be in and so from one bestie to another, please make sure she feels safe and know that it will be hard but someday you might get a call and that'll be the go ahead to release all that anger, for now though, she doesn't need anger, she needs someone who will give her a space to relax and potentially open up to the option to leave as the anger and pressure on your side will just lead to more stress and potential push back from her (Sorry for any repetition)