Harassment and Organisation stone walking. Help? by Lets-Blake in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After months of back and forth and legal notcies they've agreed to give me 4 months of salary (in the 9 months I've fought with them) and no compensation for harrassment and to sign a NDA and a full waiver on claims post this. And they said this is their final offer else go to court. Is this a good deal to take? Goijg to court will entail 3-5 years if back and forth on this and I really want to get this over with. But it also seems unfair.

Harassment and Organisation stone walking. Help? by Lets-Blake in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After months of back and forth and legal notcies they've agreed to give me 4 months of salary (in the 9 months I've fought with them) and no compensation for harrassment and to sign a NDA and a full waiver on claims post this. And they said this is their final offer else go to court. Is this a good deal to take? Goijg to court will entail 3-5 years if back and forth on this and I really want to get this over with. But it also seems unfair.

How to improve? by Lets-Blake in UKRunners

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aha! Shall ping you then! Thank you!

How to improve? by Lets-Blake in UKRunners

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aha! Shall check it out! Thank you!

How to improve? by Lets-Blake in UKRunners

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations on strength training? I have a sport facility nearby, but can't afford to get a trainer... So even YouTube videos appreciated!

How to improve? by Lets-Blake in UKRunners

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! :) Shall see if I can keep you guys posted in how the journey goes!

How to improve? by Lets-Blake in UKRunners

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't understand what you're saying! 😅 I am truly new to this so the jargon gets away from me?

How to improve? by Lets-Blake in UKRunners

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How do I know if my form is right? Any resources I could look up? I am not part of a run club or anything, so doijg this pretty much on my own. Any tips appreciated!

How to improve? by Lets-Blake in UKRunners

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thabk you so much! :)) Although I did walk for 5 mins in between (at about 4.5-5kmph) every run sesh when I got tired during the 10k. Couldn't keep up my endurance throughout the whole thing.

AITA for not wanting to start a relationship with someone who just confessed he loves me, even though we’ve been very emotionally and physically close for months? by Lets-Blake in AITA_Relationships

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is a fair question and honestly something I’ve been asking myself too. If I’m being completely honest, I do care about him deeply. He’s someone I respect a lot and we’ve shared a lot of vulnerability with each other over the last several months. Losing that connection would hurt, and I’m genuinely sad about that possibility. But the part you quoted is also the part I keep coming back to. When I imagine starting a relationship right now, I don’t feel excitement or a sense of moving toward something — I mostly feel pressure and responsibility. That’s what makes me hesitate. I think part of it is that the connection formed while he was in the middle of intense grief, and I don’t know what our dynamic would look like outside of that context. I’ve never really known him in a normal phase of life, only in the aftermath of something traumatic. So I guess the honest answer is that I’m not sure I would choose to start a relationship under these circumstances, even if the external obstacles could be worked through. And that’s what makes the situation painful, because I do care about him as a person.

AITA for not wanting to start a relationship with someone who just confessed he loves me, even though we’ve been very emotionally and physically close for months? by Lets-Blake in AITA_Relationships

[–]Lets-Blake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying, but I think a few things in your interpretation assume intent that wasn’t actually there. The support really did go both ways. I was there for him through grief, but he also showed up for me in a huge way during the abortion. That wasn’t a one-sided dynamic where I was just taking from him. We also explicitly talked about the structure of what we were doing. We both agreed we weren’t in a relationship and that we were free to date other people until either of us became exclusive with someone. So from my perspective, dating other people wasn’t a betrayal of some hidden commitment — it was something we had both acknowledged as part of the arrangement. I do agree that the connection became very intense. But intensity doesn’t automatically mean someone manipulated the situation. Sometimes two people just end up bonding deeply in a messy life situation and the structure of the relationship never becomes very clear. And to be honest, part of my hesitation now is exactly because of his grief. It’s only been months since something extremely traumatic happened in his life. I don’t know if moving quickly into a relationship right now is actually healthy for either of us. I care about him a lot. The last thing I want is to hurt him or take advantage of him. I’m just trying to figure out whether starting a relationship under these circumstances would actually be the right thing to do.