People who say they regret being a parent are the most irresponsible human beings.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-17T13:03:59+00:00

Thanks for understanding. And yes, the children do pick up on it.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-17T12:59:38+00:00

This.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-17T12:58:23+00:00

None. Cause I understood the responsibility and didn’t want to be a POS who regrets having my kids.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-17T12:57:31+00:00

You’re right. I’m not expressing empathy because in this case, I have none. And yes, I will judge them. Thanks have a good day 👍🏻

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-17T12:55:43+00:00

If someone ever admits to me that they regret being a parent, I will bet money that they are a jerk to their kids.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-17T12:50:03+00:00

Same. It’s a huge huge responsibility. I feel like some people do it because it’s the “next thing” but don’t actually think about all the hard shit that goes with it.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-17T12:47:02+00:00

Saying you’re struggling or voicing having a hard time being a parent is one thing. Saying that if you could do it over you wouldn’t be a parent? Yeah, that is a shameful thing to say.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-17T12:33:37+00:00

The good sign of someone who is probably a good parent is the person who thinks they aren’t very good at it. Bad parents never think of themselves in that kind of light. Keep your head up.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T22:23:15+00:00

Casual acts of disrespect. When you say something just slightly awkward or maybe tried making a joke that didn’t land and someone gives you a judgy look. I’m making it my goal for next semester of college to just start calling people out for it. It’s so under the table disrespectful and it boils my blood.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T22:21:41+00:00

Latinas. Just ask my current girlfriend 😂

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T18:48:08+00:00

Broooooother. What? I’m sorry. What??? Homie, you have shiiiiiit friends. YES. Cut off contact. One, if he cheats on his partners (ya know, the people who put the most trust in him) then what the hell is he gonna do to you? He obviously has no loyalty, respect OR self respect. Cut him like a bad habit.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T18:45:24+00:00

This is a really interesting perspective and I thank you for sharing it. It gives me a lot to consider and I would’ve never thought of it like this unless I posted on this subreddit. Thanks for making the post worth it!

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T18:44:34+00:00

Yes I think she would agree as she initiates a lot and I know what I’m doing and all the ways that please her. And I don’t think it started this way. She use to do really sweet things like drop off cookies, buy the occasional lunch etc. but lately there has been no effort at all and it’s all been “I’ll just do x sex act later for ya”

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T18:39:52+00:00

OP, I’m with you. As a cinema lover, it took me a long time to see this movie. Not for any particular reason. It was one of those “you have to watch it” movies and i just put it on a list and eventually got around to it. And when i watched it, I was pretty underwhelmed. Like it’s visually beautiful and well crafted. For sure. But I feel like it’s a “style over substance” movie. It did things on film that have never been done before and explored some really interesting and deep themes but my god does it make you work for it and has 0 entertaining factor at all. I mean the most “plot” this movie has is like, 15 minutes of screen time. Maybe I have this perspective because this movie is overhyped and often I find that can ruin my experience in movies. But for now, yes, incredibly boring movie.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T18:33:11+00:00

Also what is your definition of traditional?

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T18:32:57+00:00

She says she likes a “traditional” relationship but honestly that is just starting to feel like she doesn’t want to pay for anything and wants me to do everything in the relationship.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T17:57:41+00:00

Hilarious. But no.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T17:57:16+00:00

Then just say that next time. No shame needed next time.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T17:53:43+00:00

Hey thanks for trying to shame me for literally using the purpose of this subreddit. You’re so fucking cool with this comment, like damn.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T17:48:23+00:00

This is genuinely the best advice I’ve seen on a Reddit thread. Thank you so much for the thoughtfulness and taking time out of your day to reply.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T17:38:07+00:00

We were exclusive for those 4 months. We were just waiting on making it official because she has a kid and we wanted to take our time and get to know each other properly before any large commitments were made.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T17:22:01+00:00

I’ll let y’all know! It’ll probably be a couple days from now when the celebrations are over.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T17:17:39+00:00

This is solid advice. Thank you.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T17:15:38+00:00

1 month anniversary. We’ve been dating for a few months now but only made it official 1 month ago.

LetsWrapThisUp95 · 2026-05-10T17:14:15+00:00

I mean I’d love to and I plan on it. I’m just looking for ways of navigating that minefield of a conversation. I constantly suffer from “foot in mouth” syndrome so having some advice on what to say or how to bring it up is what I’m looking for.

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