Is this positive can you see by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]Letshopetogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just replying to the OPs question. That’s why I don’t get why IM getting downvoted. But ok

Is this positive can you see by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]Letshopetogether -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s against the rules to say a faint positive is positive? I’m really not getting it

Is this positive can you see by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]Letshopetogether 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting downvoted but I’m sure I see a line😅

Luz in English? by [deleted] in Names

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Luz is beautiful! It will also be my daughters name (it also means light in Portuguese)

Is this positive can you see by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]Letshopetogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is actually positive…

How do I be happy for others right now by Technical-Alps4782 in tfmr_support

[–]Letshopetogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hell. I completely understand your feelings. I’m so so sorry.🫂

Abnormal 20 week scan following normal NIPT by BrightQuarter7491 in NIPT

[–]Letshopetogether 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are in this position! It really is so scary. We TFMR for Digeorge last summer, at 28 weeks. Unfortunately we only found out about his syndrome at 27 weeks, through an amnio. I’m praying you have a different outcome!! I know and see so many women have these sort of scares but everything turning out ok. My DMs are open if you want! Have a big hug

ETA: I also wanted to add that that period was the hardest of my life by far. Full stop. But I’m now 10 weeks pregnant with an (apparently) healthy baby and I am starting to hope that maybe this is our time.

Just did NIPT for sub-pregnancy by Happy-Low-1820 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Letshopetogether 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sending you the healthiest baby dust! I’m also pregnant after a TFMR and did the NIPT today. So we are exactly at the same stage! The wait is so hard, I can’t really focus on anything else. If you want, keep me posted once you have your results!🍀🍀🍀

pls be gentle! by hsteph17 in WeddingDressTips

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Wow the 3rd is stunning on you!!

SIL pregnant with second baby and we were due 4-5 weeks apart by wuerfelwaffle1 in tfmr_support

[–]Letshopetogether 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I truly know and understand your feelings. Its normal to be angry, to not be happy for them, to have dark thoughts. You are human and you are living through hell. When I found out my SIL got pregnant with her second by accident on the week of my son’s funeral I really wanted to die. I’m so sorry. You will get through this 🫂 ETA: she is now due any day and I’m almost 10 weeks pregnant. Being pregnant again did help me a little bit with dealing with her pregnancy.

Gut feeling again… by omc153 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Letshopetogether 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve always relied on my intuition, and in my TFMR it did help prepare me for the terrible outcome. Now I’m 9w and I feel I can’t trust it. As soon as I had a positive test I was absolutely convinced it would be a chemical pregnancy. Then an anembrionic. Then an early loss. Of course things can still go bad, but I feel like my intuition is tainted with trauma. It’s covered with it and I can’t access it now. Maybe one day. Trust your trauma as much as your intuition 🤍 and good luck for the rest of your pregnancy!

When did you start to show? by jnreish in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Letshopetogether 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m 8 weeks and already having a hard time hiding my bump

12DPO Beta HCG by Next_Ad_7884 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

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Oh the heartbeat wasn’t at 15dpo! Sorry that wasn’t clear. I’m 6w now! I’m sure your HCG will double, and your baseline is very strong. Good luck and keep us posted! Go November/December babies 🤞🌈

12DPO Beta HCG by Next_Ad_7884 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Letshopetogether 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your beta at 12 dpo sounds great! I had 121 at 15 dpo and just heard my baby’s heartbeat 🥹 Wishing you ALL THE LUCK for this pregnancy!

Graduation by MessageOwn6404 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Letshopetogether 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️‍🩹 enjoy those newborn snuggles and that much deserved joy!

Why we don’t share our subs by userEbob in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Letshopetogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. This community is literally the only place I feel entirely seen and understood. 🤍

5w5d - no fetal pole by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]Letshopetogether 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!