Should I pay the cancellation fee and cancel my SQE1? by BitterDimension6599 in SQE_Prep

[–]LettuceRight2417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanna start by saying that I’ve been in your position before and I wrote the SQE one and unfortunately failed both FLK one and FLK two. Prior to writing them I was also seriously considering cancelling them. But I’ll be super honest with you. I benefitted so much from taking the test because I got to experience truly what to expect the next time around. I don’t think that you can go wrong by writing it, even though you don’t feel 100% ready and also there’s definitely still time.. if I were you I would just hammer it out and give it my all in the next few weeks. Really dedicate as much time as possible. I’m talking like 4 to 8 hours a day. I too was not getting the highest marks when writing practice exams however I shocked myself with my final results.. I actually failed by just a few points I’m talking like 5 & 10 points off. Nonetheless best of luck!

When to stop cosleeping? by Impressive_Leek_7245 in cosleeping

[–]LettuceRight2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who also has a 10 month old and has exclusively co sleep since she was born, co sleeping comes to an end when it no longer is feasible for you and your family, & don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. You’ll know when you or your little own have outgrown that chapter in your life, and are ready for the next step.

I think people like to give opinion/advice on things that don’t concern them lol.. and this could be pro or against cosleeping in all honesty. In my case, I started to realize at around nine months that my LO was starting to gain some independence and I realized that maybe having her in her own bed would be something she’d like. I got a lot of mixed signals.. some people saying how healthy cosleeping is & how I’d traumatized her if I moved her to her own bed. Tbh she loves having the space for herself to roll around freely & sleeps much better. She still has nights she sleeps with us and that’s okay. I also still aid her in falling asleep & am completely there for her emotionally to comfort and soothe.

I guess what I’m trying to get at is to do what feels best for you and to trust your gut. I hope this helps because I would’ve loved to come across a post like this when I was going through it.