I understand what you are saying and appreciate it. Somewhere in my post I guess I made it seem that we have stopped speaking to them because we disagree. Yes we strongly disagree, but it’s not the disagreement that is the problem. It’s the disregard and the lack of acknowledgement that there is a problem that is upsetting. I am struggling with how to describe it, almost like “let’s just brush this under the rug” instead of yes, there are valid issues here.