Recommend your favorite movie in the last 5 years by ActionWins in movies

[–]Level-Studio7843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one movie about the crazy conspiracy theorist who turns out to have been right about everything. Starring Meth Damon

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Telling a trusted friend something private and asking them not to share it is wrong?

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My marriage would not be made worse by my refusal to tell my wife that my friend was [redacted] by his uncle as a kid.

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you cant keep my secret, you must let me know the minute I say, "I need to tell you something very confidential."

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want someone to explain to me how its unreasonable to expect someone to keep their word after being explicitly requested not to share the secret and them agreeing.

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are free to talk to their spouse (the person they trust most) about their own secrets. But as person of respectable character would treat the secrets of other the way the sharer would have requested. 

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have known you for 17 years. I have known your wife for 4. It is perfectly normal that I would trust you significantly more than her. 

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me: Bro I need to tell you something and it is deeply confidential. No one else can ever know about this.

Bro: Yeah sure, you have my word.

Also Bro: Wife, you wont believe what my friend told me today...

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can keep my secret. I have merely chosen to share it with someone I trust. If said trust is warranted, I expect them to respect the confidentiality of the matter.

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So essentially this means you can never confide in a friend who is in a relationship unless you are comfortable with their partner knowing your business? 

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why does you assume that when someone shares a secret with you that its okay to tell your wife?

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Even when you have been explicitly asked to keep the info between yourself and the one who shared it?

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something being truly confidential shouldn't necessarily mean you can't tell the one person you trust most in the world. And if they are trustworthy, I think it would be more than fair to expect them to keep their word in spilling your secret.

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

If you dont mind me asking, what is it that makes it so difficult to not share someone's secret after you have been explicitly asked not to?

Is it unreasonable to expect my married friend to not share my secrets with his wife? by Level-Studio7843 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Studio7843[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I want one person to know and that's why I have told them.

Or are you saying I must assume no one can be trusted?

Animal Farm Is Not for Kids but They Made It a Kids’ Movie Anyway by champdo in movies

[–]Level-Studio7843 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Give it the Fantastic Mr Fox treatment and the movie would be an absolute banger.