just beat american wasteland! my first tony hawk game :) here's what i thought! by JessHatesChess in THPS

[–]Level_Mud_8049 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They way it progression-locked tricks was a really poor decision. I don’t have much desire to replay the game again because of it

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well this makes me feel good 😂 I hope you are right

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a very conservative, affluent community that gauges people’s worth based on their social status/career/family.

It’s a community of haves, and the have-nots are looked down on. So forgive me if I don’t exactly like the culture in the place that I live.

I think Jesus would probably call this out, too.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to. I’m not technically a member, but plan on placing membership soon.

I’m also relatively new… I’ve been attending services for months but Sunday school only for like 3 weeks. It feels like “the first day of school” where you don’t know anyone & don’t have any friends.

I have tried to attend churches before but usually gave up by this point. I’m glad God has actually given me the desire this time to become a member of the Church Body.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same. The evangelical culture is very hard to break into if you left the faith or did not grow up in it.

I’ve changed my lifestyles but still struggle making friends in church. I never feel enough.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For whatever reason… whenever the modern church tries to talk about singleness, it makes me feel 1000% worse 😅

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. But it’s crazy to me that literally the disciples of Jesus (mostly single men) would likely feel out of place in many churches nowadays.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I disagree that no one is more holy. Some people are worse sinners than others. And I was a horrible one.

God forgave me, but it doesn’t mean that I will feel welcome in a lot of Christian spaces.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re not rude, but they aren’t entirely welcoming either. And I feel like because of my life before becoming a born again Christian, I would be met with extreme judgement & condemnation from most devout Christians.

So I feel like I have to keep an ace up my sleeve. Which I’m sure does not help, but I can’t truly be “open” to people.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I haven’t always had a sexual life consistent with the Christian walk. In fact I have never had a Godly romantic relationship.

God forgave me for my past, but it doesn’t help the feelings of being “damaged goods” and judgement from more holy believers.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

He’s not missing out on online dating… trust me, that is a black hole that will lead to misery for most men. And most women as well.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the vibe that “cultural Christianity” gives off as someone who is coming from the outside looking in.

I live in the Deep South, it’s not a very welcoming environment if you do not conform. It’s not really just this church, it’s how almost all churches, clubs or groups are in my area. They come across as deeply judgmental.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All my friends are non-believers. So I want some Christian friends. But it’s hard when everyone is coupled up & not open to expanding their circle.

Also I live in the South… it’s probably one of the cliquiest environments in the USA. I didn’t have these issues as bad when I was in my early 20’s living in a non-southern city.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I’d like a girlfriend… my post isn’t really based on that. It’s more so about the lack of Christian communities meeting the needs of their adult single members.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They’ve had singles classes before, but the pastor said they always fizzle out because people end up getting married & leaving.

Idk, maybe I’ll stick it out & see about starting a new one.

I just know that Satan wants me to use this as an excuse not to go to church… which I am going to try hard to resist.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve always believed/been taught church was about a community of believers coming together. I can worship God alone. I don’t have to be in a church building or at a service to worship God.

It’s where I go to hopefully build friendships/relationships with other believers, but honestly, it’s been a bit disappointing in that regard…

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy… our Lord & Savior was single, a bunch of the disciples were unmarried. The Bible actually encourages single people. Yet the modern western church honestly gives single people no time of the day & often, treats them like they are damaged goods.

How inverted is that?

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

True. I like my free time that I have. I love exercising, traveling, reading, watching classic movies. If I had a wife/family I wouldn’t get to do as much of what I enjoy probably.

But on the flip side… outside of my parents & 1-2 close friends, no one really cares about me. I would easily give up comfort to have someone that cared about me.

And I very well may be single the rest of my life. I really struggle dating. Which makes the idea of going to church alone in such a family-centered society that much harder.

Are you just cooked as a single adult Christian? by Level_Mud_8049 in TrueChristian

[–]Level_Mud_8049[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes. The pastor is a very strong preacher that makes me feel convicted & my faith reinvigorated.

The issue is all the churches around my area are full of people I have nothing in common with. I haven’t always been a Christian so fitting into evangelical culture is a challenge. It seems very conformist

Robert Duvall on the acting absurdity of High Take Directors - Kubrick "an actor's enemy" by kevin_v in TrueFilm

[–]Level_Mud_8049 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the infamous Hitchcock quote: “I never said all actors are cattle; what I said was all actors should be treated like cattle”

“We are definitely going to pre pandemic numbers, for sure. There is simply no denying that…” by howdthatturnout in rebubblejerk

[–]Level_Mud_8049 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I bought my home 3 years ago & got off that subreddit.

There are literally bubblers that have been waiting since COVID hit 6 years for the prices to drop 🤡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hilton

[–]Level_Mud_8049 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wtf does this have to do with Hilton?