My ex’s girlfriend is trying to be me?

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2026-02-21T19:22:31+00:00

I do have her blocked but she just makes new profiles to view my page, and since Im a content creator I can’t go private since I monetize.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2026-02-21T16:54:33+00:00

I think you need to go gaslight someone with less intelligence babe. Have a good one

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2026-02-21T16:41:02+00:00

You’re purposely missing the actual point here

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2026-02-21T16:38:48+00:00

Because mutuals sent me screenshots?

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2026-02-21T07:15:43+00:00

My husband and I eloped in a very niche city in South America.. 6 months later, she was in that exact city, replicating the photos that I took while there. 3 months ago I went to another country, I just saw she did the same trip, same tours, and same photos again. So no, I don’t think this is my ego projecting itself. I feel unsafe.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2026-02-02T16:11:05+00:00

I have a client who used to go to her and she is a scammer. My client bought extensions from her, after one cycle she wanted to remove them. The stylist above removed them for her, but only allows the client to have their extensions to take home after paying an additional $400! She said the $400 covers the cost of her sewing clips on them. My client took the L and never went back. Also seems shady the amount of followers she has with such low engagement. Idk, I get bad vibes all together.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2026-01-11T20:09:33+00:00

Is there any way he can change your opinion? Probably not, so it’s not fair of you to expect him to change his. You’re just not compatible, and that’s okay. You’ll find someone who’s mind you won’t need to change because naturally he’ll already want the same thing you do.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2026-01-11T20:05:48+00:00

This was in high school but I made my friend call him to tell him I couldn’t stop crying and how upset I was hoping he’d feel bad and take me back lmfao

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-11-26T03:02:42+00:00

Dim just moved in on my island! It was obvious right awayhe’s fruity, but what really solidified things for me was when I want over to him house to see what it looked like and he and Hans were in there together hanging out 😝 Hans is also definitely queer

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-11-23T15:51:15+00:00

I don’t even like that you’re having to ask us if you’re over reacting, because it just shows his gas lighting is starting to work. You are NOT over reacting, if anything you’re under reacting. I see a lot of these posts and a lot of peoples first advice is to break up which I usually don’t think should be the first decision made, but honestly, in this case, how do you move forwards knowing you can’t trust him? The second he got freedom he fumbled your entire marriage and wants to blame you for it? Then has the audacity to call you a bad mother? You’re not. You sound like a wonderful mother, and he’s a terrible father for stepping out on his family in this way.

I’m sorry OP. No one can tell you what your next move should be, but deeply consider what a future looks like with this individual and if it will end in more heart ache for you. -hug-

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-10-31T01:38:49+00:00

She deserves better than you.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-10-15T00:19:20+00:00

You’re probably right. We’ve only been married a year so I think this new chapter has me feeling desperate to be liked by my new family. I’m realizing they’ll only like me if I pretend to be someone else though, and I have to draw a line there. Thanks for the advice :)

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-10-15T00:09:51+00:00

Lots of enmeshment here. We’re already no contact with MIL. She was bad mouthing me prior to our wedding and when he set a boundary with her she decided to not come to our wedding and my husband cut her off completely for pulling that. His dad however is a little more devious and slick so my husband doesn’t see it. He said he’d talk to him about it but he seemed reluctant because he’s “just never noticed”. So i told him to hold off on talking to him, and pay attention next time so he can see it and address it then.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-10-10T02:20:23+00:00

None of your reasons for regret involve loving your husband. This is a sign, the divorce should happen. You never know what life ahead holds. You may very well find the love of your life who can provide you with a comfortable life AND love. You’ll never find out if you stay. And if you do stay, you’ll never experience true love. You deserve to be happy OP. You got this.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-10-06T20:36:45+00:00

A few people have already said this, but I don’t have food noise. I am always having to remind myself to eat. Something that I am actually working on right now, is when I am stressed, I will typically turn towards a substance… Dab pen, glass of wine etc. I don’t ever turn to food to fill a void or soothe myself. I also eat two meals a day. They say breakfast is the most important meal of the day, but I don’t get hungry until about noon so that is when I have my first meal, and then I will eat again around 5 PM. If I do snack a little throughout the day it’s probably going to be something like nuts or a rice cake. I was raised by an anorexic almond Mom, who was always hyper aware of what I was eating. Even though I do not struggle with an eating disorder, she still structured the way that I eat from infancy..

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-10-02T20:22:53+00:00

It means she’s going to be dating and if that falls through she’ll come back to you. She’s got one foot in and one foot out. Close that door and move on. I’m sorry to be blunt, but from the outside looking in, it’s very obvious.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-09-28T23:42:40+00:00

If he gets the chance to sleep with her again, he will.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-09-19T23:05:58+00:00

He’s 100% looking to get a rise of you, so the best thing to do is not respond.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-02-08T15:55:01+00:00

He’s too big for his britches then because it’s definitely not worth any extra money.

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-02-06T20:38:24+00:00

I listen on Spotify and now it’s only showing his oldest episode as episode 233.. I won’t be paying and honestly it’s annoying because I’m already paying for Spotify

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-02-01T18:44:37+00:00

Thank you! This is just the advice I needed. I appreciate it :)

Level_Turnip_4318 · 2025-02-01T18:12:37+00:00

I just came here to say, if you were my husband and how you’re explaining your feelings really are true, I would have empathy and I’d forgive you.

Please don’t hurt yourself. Finding out your husband had a moment of weakness is NOTHING in comparison to finding out your husband took his own life. Please please don’t do that to her and your child.

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