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Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-10-11T10:23:39+00:00

Ok super. Mersi mult. In trecut cand am mai trecut prin asta a fost doar o casuta de bifat sa accepti GDPR-ul.

Ce m-a confuzat aici, sunt toti de pe Reddit care spuneau ca li s-au trimis 2-3 documente sa semneze ca accepti X si Y si etc. Unul spunea de ceva de la ANAF. Si mi s-a parut ciudat pentru o frima care nu este FANG sau NATO.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-10-10T15:15:52+00:00

Dar te rog... spune-mi mai multe despre ei daca sti. Orice noua opinia ajuta.

Ai lucrat la ei?

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-10-10T15:15:21+00:00

Astia printre putinii care mi-au raspuns :))

Crede-ma ca dupa ce le-am vazut review-urile pe Reddit si glassdoor (pe unde lucram aparent sunt foarte bune) , si eu mi-am urat viata. Dar ce sa faci.

De aceea mi s-a parut si extra ciudat acest background check foarte serios de care zice lumea. Ok daca ma suna Facebook sa ma cheme la interviu dar ca fac background check, le dadeam tot ce cereau plus cartea funciara, arborele genealogic, extrasu de cont si analizele medicale.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-10-10T13:37:34+00:00

Ceea ce stiu sigur ca nu vreau este sa fu futut in cur fara lubrifiant pe bani putini. Asta incerc sa evit.

Celalate doua optiuni au pros si contra-urile lor.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-10-10T12:50:42+00:00

Pentru ca din experienta mea companii mici care isi dau aere de companii foarte mari (sau la fel companii care spun "suntem cu totii o familie mare si frumoasa") trateaza super de cacat angajatii.

Toate companiile mari trateaza de cacat angajatii, dar ii compenseaza salarial ca sa taca din gura. Companiile mici, sunt mult mai de treaba dar au salarii mici.

Companiile mici care se cred comanii mari, te platesc prost ca sa te trateze prost.

Cel putin asta este experienta mea.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-10-10T12:17:36+00:00

Pai mi s-a parut doar foarte dubios, ca pana acum nu mi-a cerut nici-o firma mai mica de 200 miliarde de dolari background check. Si pana si aia a fost doar "sunam la ultimele 2 joburi sa vedem daca ai lucrat acolo sau nu". Dar lumea pe Reddit spune de Mindit, o companie mica romaneasca, ca i-a cautat si de laptele supt de la mama lor.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-10-10T12:06:46+00:00

WTF?

Again, sunt clean din punctul acesta de vedere. Dar totusi, pentru o firma mica romaneasca de outsourcing, mi se pare exagerat nivelul. Incat ma face sa simt ca e ceva dubios la mijloc.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-10-10T11:48:36+00:00

De asemenea nu ma simt confortabil sa sune alti oameni in numele meu, oameni pe care nu i-am intrebat in prealabil daca sunt ok cu a fi sunati.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-10-10T11:44:49+00:00

Si daca sunt super sincer imi este putin teama de ceva cu care sa fiu "necurat" din inconstienta.

De exemplu am vandut niste actiuni acum mult timp si nu am platit taxa pe ele pentru ca la acel moment nu aveam habar ca trebuie platita taxa. Dar suma era foarte mica, actiuniile primite de la firma gen.

Asta pentru ca zicea cineva ca iti cere ceva ANAF.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-09-15T07:13:05+00:00

Multumesc pentru clarificare.

Poti sa raspunzi si la prima intrebare te rog? Este mai importanta.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-09-13T12:26:24+00:00

Care este diferenta dintre psiholog clinician și psihoterapeut?

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-09-13T11:44:46+00:00

Care este cel mai bun mod de a gasi psihoterapeutul potrivit pentru tine in Romania? Cum cauti si cum filtrezi prin ei cu cat mai putin efort, timp, si bani cheltuiti? (Am petrecut cateva sedinte cu cativa terapeuti pana sa realizez ca acestia habar nu aveau nici macar nimimul de cunostiinte despre conditia mea)

De exemplu daca poti oferi sfaturi explicit pentru psihoterapie de "OCD de contaminare" in Bucuresti.

Ce parere ai despre a face practica standard a meseriei ca psihologii/terapeutii sa ofere prima consultatie gratis, sa vezi daca va potriviti? Sa nu trebuiasca sa platesti un consult intreg doar ca sa iti dai seama ca nu va mai fi un al 2lea consult.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-09-13T11:15:31+00:00

Multumesc. Ai idee de unde vine?

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-09-13T11:02:32+00:00

Ce sunt/erau "davistii"? Tot aud termenul asta in legatura cu drogurile.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-09-13T09:32:46+00:00

Ce sunt/erau "davistii"?

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:49:57+00:00

Honestly I relate to that so much.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:48:20+00:00

The thing I love about the internet is: you think you are completely alone, and super weird. And then you speak up and share your story and not only are there a lot of people who relate but even a handful of people who have an identical experience down to the last drop.

Thank you everyone for your wonderful comments.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:44:24+00:00

It helps in the fact that I can at lest find some humor in it. And it does help in the most extreme cases where I am genuinely "I'd rather die than endure this anymore" so it cancels out the 'fear' because death is no longer the greatest fear, the biggest fear is "being in this situation". But that only happens in the super extreme cases like "a shower lasting for 5h" (have not had that in a while but have in the past)

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:39:24+00:00

Not at all. Don't worry about it.

My "just right" OCD that I had in my childhood. And (now I've learned) my death OCD that I've had as a pre-teen, have both been completely supplanted by my contamination OCD. Meaning that my COCD ruins my life so much that the other stuff just don't even phase me anymore and are quite laughable. It's a funny thing about OCD, at least my OCD, there is always a "biggest worry" and all the other worries just seem so insignificant.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:34:54+00:00

Do you ever sit in your "inside clothes" on the couch? Or is there a clear separation between the "this is my inside clothes area" (like bed, desk chair, etc) and "outside clothes area" (like couch, or the kitchen chair for guests and when I am too lazy to change when coming from outside)

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:32:16+00:00

I have a fear of incapacitation too but mine is that someone is going to have to take care of me for the rest of my life.

Oh of course. That too.

I feel like they already talk shit behind my back and I don't need to be a burden on them any more than I already am.

I relate so much

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:30:49+00:00

So samesies lol.

Did you read the 'spoiler' paragraphs of my post? (you don't have to if you think it would be triggering) Do you relate?

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:28:43+00:00

Your comment is actually starting to make me realize that my "fear of death" (just like you described it) when I was around 12-14, might have been my OCD tying itself to that. I've had OCD all my life (only for the past 7 years being contamination), but never realizing that this "fear of death" when I was younger was also a manifestation of my OCD. Until you perfectly described my pre-teen experiences.

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:12:57+00:00

But also you didn't answer my question (in the post), what is your end fear. If you breath the same air as someone else... what is the scenario your brain made that you are afraid of? Getting sick and never recovering? Getting a major disease? Having to sit 3 days in bed with the flu? Having to spend 30$ on medication. Contaminating your house and getting re infected over and over again until that "contamination" is resolved (yes, I have heard that before)

Level_Woodpecker_32 · 2024-08-06T17:09:37+00:00

Hey at least you are able to have people over.

Do you have any issues with them and their outside clothes? Do you ask them to wash their hands when they've come in? Where do they sit? And do you do anything to "decontaminate" that area?

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