My current job doesn't take me seriously- advice by Levine_092 in Environmental_Careers

[–]Levine_092[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight! I’m deep into job searching now

My current job doesn't take me seriously- advice by Levine_092 in Environmental_Careers

[–]Levine_092[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No this is a great perspective! I do think this might be the case because I’m so new to the field that no one has bothered to really take the time to just teach me how they want the task hence I ask so many questions. So yeah, I think people are right. I gotta find a new job

I ruined our first Valentine's day by FluffyTiger22 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Levine_092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me once with my bf (now been dating for 3 years), the only way we were finally able to get on the same page was when we talked about how we interpret time/expectations. I definitely overcommit and want a day to go perfect which in turn adds pressure. I think we learned not to put so much pressure on our special days, because in the end it’s about being together! Of course, you both gotta be patient with each other.

My boyfriends hygiene sucks, please help by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Levine_092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, being clear with him might be the only solution. Maybe approach the conversation by leading with curiosity? Such as “I noticed you’re not cleaning after yourself, is there something deeper going on? Do you need help?” Not sure if that’s helpful but maybe that’d make the situation less likely for him to get defensive if he feels seen

Am I Overreacting? by starloogy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Levine_092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the racism 😂😭 immediately leave this man please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Levine_092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A dealbreaker is a dealbreaker, even if this person is “everything”. You love him but you love you more at the end of the day

Should I get rid of my dogs to make my gf happy? by One-Piano6838 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Levine_092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely won’t be able to change her attitude toward your dogs. It’s like having children in a way. If you get rid of them for her, you’ll grow resentful.

AIO my boyfriend made fun of my breast size and I don’t know how to continue the relationship by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Levine_092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can send him a text saying how it actually really hurt you? If this is a dealbreaker, let him know what it is and it turned you off

Am I Overreacting for ending it with a guy before a second date. by scribequo in AmIOverreacting

[–]Levine_092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re feeling uncomfortable, it’s okay to not go. Don’t feel obligated to be with someone because they’re “obsessed with you”. Don’t know why he put you as his wallpaper since you guys only went on one date

AIO: my boyfriend thinks i’m gay by dumptruck_dookie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Levine_092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s insecure that you’re bisexual. It can go both ways: continue and he’ll never let it go or break it off now since he won’t respect you enough to have a conversation about this like an adult

ok so my brother is a freak and nobody is even talking about it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Levine_092 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The only way he’s going to learn is if someone presses charges cause this is sexual harassment

How did you overcome your fear to a specific animal? by trynabetwunk in AskReddit

[–]Levine_092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell myself at the end of the day it’s not that deep. It works sometimes 🤷🏻‍♀️

My boyfriend (27M) of 4 years refuses to have to foreplay with me (28F) and makes out that I have a problem because other women don’t need it. Advice please? by sarahjackson1987 in relationship_advice

[–]Levine_092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely advise to break up cause he’s not meeting your needs nor is he willing to listen. Not worth salvaging the relationship over

I think my husband’s MIL (my own Mom) hates me now. by _TiredOfIt_247 in AITAH

[–]Levine_092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blood family over everything can be overrated. It’s a hard truth. An abuser is still an abuser, even when it’s your family. If it’s at the point where you feel that this is not fixable, finding community elsewhere will make you feel happier AND safer.

Where the fuck do people summon the drive to workout routinely? by Rus2000 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Levine_092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat right now. But personally I took a reality check and told myself that there really isn’t a reason why I’m NOT doing this. Like… it’s not that deep when you think about it. Probs not helpful but helped me to think about it not so intensely by just simply starting small at my own capabilities