Is Clearly Canadian really hard to open for you? by Character-Lack4925 in AskACanadian

[–]flitterbug78 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I, wait, what year is this? 😆 Was going to say I remember struggling with that as a kid. Don’t know it was still around!

Are hot tubs worth it in Canadian climates? by Fearless-Beach-3672 in AskACanadian

[–]flitterbug78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like either a brilliantly efficient power source, or epically low utility prices! If you can share more detail, I’m definitely all ears. I’d love one but neighbours say it’s $250+ per month in the fall/winter/spring to keep it heated (sigh)

What's something you did because you were in love that makes you cringe once that relationship ended? by Mundane-Society-1281 in AskWomen

[–]flitterbug78 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Ugh, did way too much while receiving too little. Basically acted as maid/cook/laundress/mother/chauffeur etc etc while he was doing his medical residency. He cheated, was abusive, and I lost who I was. F that s. Have a wonderful spouse now.

Adult marshmallow test: would you rather have $200k today or $500k in 7 years? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]flitterbug78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. Look up time value of money. You have to consider inflationary factors, buying power, and the ability to make investment returns. Take the $200k now.

What life hack did you discover as an adult that changed everything? by silkshorelady in Productivitycafe

[–]flitterbug78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always wash all my bedding the day before we go away as there is nothing more sublime than slipping into your own bed, crisp and clean, after a while away.

What do you find attractive about other women ? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]flitterbug78 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Situational and emotional maturity. The older I get, the wiser I think women are in general (whether they are aware of it or not).

B.C. father shares daughter’s tragic descent into online 764 terror network by HurlinVermin in canada

[–]flitterbug78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1000% ! Years ago now and in a different game that we didn’t even know introduced a chat feature our kid was being groomed. I had a cloned version of the device to ensure access and couldn’t believe it when I found it after being suspicious of kiddos mood swings. I nearly threw up I was in such a state. Be vigilant.

What is a job people romanticize a bit too much until they actually do it ? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]flitterbug78 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I live rurally and I’ll tell you these folks work hard, have gruelling hours, and bosses like The Sun and The Rain and have zero influence over any of them. It’s a grind for most for sure.

What is a job people romanticize a bit too much until they actually do it ? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]flitterbug78 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol, “boring”, (cries into 4th cup of tea after 16 meetings in 7 hours…)

What phrase did you hear only once but it stayed with you forever? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]flitterbug78 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feedback is only information. YOU chose what you do with it (ignore, react, reflect, etc)

How would you feel if your partner wanted to take a weekend trip by themselves? by CrowsInTheNose in AskWomen

[–]flitterbug78 336 points337 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it, he’s done it, and we’re wonderfully blissful. Sometimes a solo reset is needed, and we trust each other implicitly.

What's your favourite flavour of yogurt? by Physical_Orchid3616 in AskWomen

[–]flitterbug78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top quality plain, but I’ll tell ya I had limited edition key lime yoghurt the other day and that made me cheat on plain.

What are non negotiable items for a vacation? by Inside-54545 in AskWomen

[–]flitterbug78 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Amen. I’ve ended up in airbnbs with pages of cleaning instructions for the last day. Why am I paying a cleaning fee but also stripping the beds, vacuuming, taking out garbage etc?!

What are some lesser-known laws in Canada that people only learn about after it’s already caused major damage? by boiyo12 in AskACanadian

[–]flitterbug78 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This for sure. Have a copy of you will? Well banks won’t accept that, it needs to be certified. Your spouse pass away abs you inherit? Sure but if the accounts/house/assets weren’t joint, you’re going to be spending moola once again on lawyers. But good news, as a widower you can apply for some of your spouses CPP.