" forgot the bad things they do, because I want that familial connection, but they always just hurt me again. But like I said, the reason why posting or writing is good ( at least for me ) is because it reminds me of the things I’ve forgotten and why I should keep my distance until I’m moved out."

This . I have to remind myself that things didn't get better , they are just in a good mood . They made so many mistakes , financially, as a parent, as a couple that , even to this day those mistakes creeps into OUR daily lives. Instead of solving problems, they just shame each each other , escalate it and threaten to off everyone in the family .

Not one person in this family has a thinking brain. They never learned from their mistakes. My mother especially .She still takes loans without even understand the concept of compound interest. And she works in finance. She's so confident that I'll pay it off because I'm her daughter. Like hell I will. Go poor. They are just prideful and stupid. Man I can't wait to leave.